I choose to find joy everywhere. I try to look for the best in everyone. I’m quirky and constantly changing. I can be funny and quick witted. I am enthusiastic and I’ve been told that I’m very responsive. I'm in the process of transforming again - this time to a smaller, healthier version of myself. I seem to be spending more time working out than I ever have before.

I’m interested in finding friends, with benefits perhaps, for fun mutually satisfying encounters. I'm not interested in falling in love or for anyone to be in love with me. Just for fun - high fives, good work, (yay team!) fun! The brain is our largest erogenous zone... if it was just about scratching an itch - I’d just get a new toy. I don’t need long walks in the moonlight, but candles and good music are great. Flirting is second nature to me, as natural as breathing.

My experience (which is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted) has taught me that if I don't add the following disclaimers/qualifications, then one of us will be sadly disappointed:

Treat me with respect - I will be respectful of you.
I love for a man to act like one – inherently strong, self possessed – even sometimes frustrating as hell.
Speak your mind… I want to know what turns you on and makes your heart pound.
Knowing what you want – that is a huge turn on!
Understand that no really means no. If I didn’t mean it, I wouldn’t be saying it.

No strings, no fuss, no drama.

Meet in a pressure free zone - coffee or a beer in a quiet place... talk and get a feel for our chemistry. Breaking the ice can be weird, be prepared to laugh at my lame-ass jokes!

Male
Age between 24 and 45
Live in United States
Must not smoke