hi im a 43 year old women who beleives that life is what u make it. and i want love and happiness. a real love,one that matters. a man thats strong and sweet,and knows how to laugh and play.please don,t play with my heart it hurts... if u know what u want and arn,t looking foe a barbe doll but a good faithful, loving , funny, real women then plse message me, im good to the man in my life..so if u beleive in faith and arn,t afraid to take a leap of faith to have true love then get in touch please not looking for games or men who are afraid of what they could have with a great women, want somebody thats ready to take a chance on love and if it dosen,t work at least u didn,t loose the chance to try, so if ur not real and are playing games just pass me by, cuz i know whats real and if u have ever loved and lost so do u so swallow ur fear and go for happiness don,t loose out on love if it,s so close by because someone hurt u. let someone else heal that hurt... it can be a great thing if u beleive in someone sometimes... UPDATE 4/22 08...... update, well im a fool and im sure there are great men out there but we all make misstakes and i did liers are hard to see or reconise some times ... but im done if u wanta chat let me know and we,ll see but... the pain a man can put u threw is awful... thanks, anita well hello it,s fixing to be 2009 ,im ready to start living and know that my life is full of love if u wanta meet a great lady that works hard and wants a super life contact me...happy new year to all good luck!!!!UPDATE....APRIL28TH... IM GONNA RITE THIS SO U KNOW OFF HAND AND THEN IF U REALLY READ MY PROFILE U,LL KNOW, I HAVE A BIRTH DEFECT, MY RT LEG IS SHORTE THEN MY LEFT BY A QUATER OF AN INCH AND MY RT CALF IS SMALLER AS IOS MY FOOT, I HAVE A SMALL LIMP NOT GROSS JUST ME IF THIS BOTHERS U MOVE ON !!! CUZ UR NOT THE RT MAN FOR ME, IM A GREAT LOVING WOMEN JUST DIFFERNT CUZ God CHOSE TO MAKE ME THAT WAY!!! THANKS, ANITA

a nice dinner or a simple cup of coffee. siting and talking geting to know each other. or a walk in the park.a mountain trip , a trip to a waterfall somewhere alot of snuggling, and pray for a thunderstorm they are so romantic...and lots of laughter and telling each others fears and dreams what other way do u know someone , hours of conversation with the right man is awsome and fun... let me know u, anita ... touch my heart and find me and real love....APRIL28TH 2009, IM UPDATING MY PROFILE, I REALLY DON,T UNDERSTAND THIS SITE MUCH, THESE MEN SAY THEY WANT A RELATIONSHIP BUT WANT EVEN TAKE THE TIME TO MEET U, I,VE MADE ALOT OF GOOD FRIENDS OFF OF HERE, AND APPERICATE THE PEOPLE THAT RESPOND, TY, ANYWAY IF U WANTA MEET DO IT U MAY BE MISSING UR OTHER HALF WITHOUT KNOWING IT... JUST BECUZ UR SCARED OF WHAT??? U MIGHT LIKE IT, LOL GO AHEAD LIVE A LIL I CAN,T EAT U... ANITA