I am well settled and financially stable and want to share my life with a special woman who is also self sufficient. I don't need someone in my life, I want someone in my life. Make sense?

Overall, I enjoy dancing, singing, camping, swimming, etc. I enjoy being spontaneous and I am a hopeless romantic and love to cuddle. My goal is to have a permanent loving relationship. I believe that two people can feel an initial attraction on their first meeting and gets stronger as time goes on as one gets to know each other better. There has to be one out there wanting what I want. Like having coffee in the morning listening to great music with a friend and lover on the back porch overlooking a pond, playing with each other, being mischievous and singing together, dance at a whim and be able to look into each other’s eyes and say “I Love You” without saying it with your lips.

Most people who get on this site appears to make first impressions based on immediate attraction because in most cases they want chemistry now. Think about this when you chose your next soul mate. I eat healthy, workout, average and I am looking to be with someone who thinks the same way I do when it comes to taking care of oneself.

NOTE: I would prefer a picture of you but I would not let an opportunity to go by. It may be my soul mate for which I search. Just know that I prefer healthy looking lady in my life. I do like exercising and eat pretty healthy. Once in a while I will splurge and go for the fast food.

Something to think about...

A Life without Love

A Sunset without a sun is no sunset at all.
A life without love is no life at all.
A rainbow without colors is no rainbow at all.
And heart without feelings is no human at all.

All these things need something to be,
Either a sun or a person or a crayon,
If only to create what nature said was meant to be.

A sunset makes us feel as though the world has been born again.
A life with love lets us know its worth to let someone in. A rainbow with colors that’s a moment frozen in time, to be grateful for all that is beautiful and feel all the glory inside.
A heart that has feelings, well that would be me.
For I love just the thought of you and hope you feel the same for me.

Life without our love, is an emptiness I'm not sure I wish to face.
Because I know that time will never be able to erase.
I wish our love was as simple as a sunset, ready to be born again.
But I know in truth love only comes from within.
So I'll keep watching for my sunset, and looking for that rainbow to shine someday.
Then one day maybe our love will find its way again.

Yacobus
God Bless!

Talk on the phone a little and then determine how, where and when we can meet.

Meet at a coffee shop or meet somewhere for a nice walk and be able to talk and share ideas. Then we can both decide the perfect date once we know each other.... :)

NOTE: DO NOT RESPOND if you are not ready for a real loving man, you are not ready for a LTR, not ready for something real beyond the internet...