This isn't easy to do.....We seem all to want about the same thing....and how do you decide if this person is the the one that will ignite the spark that is needed for the fire that makes a relationship work? I truly wonder if at my age if I am wanting it all....I want a best friend who is also an passionate lover.....and I think I may have to choose one or the other....but there is always hope....so.....

Okay here it goes.......
I am looking for a gentleman who knows what he wants in life. Intelligent and secure. Must love to laugh and have a positive attitude....Life is too short not to enjoy all the moments.

I am not into games. If we meet and you find there is no spark, it is okay....we are adults....let me know.....and I will do the same in a kind way. I would never be mean, just honest with you.

I truly enjoy all the moments in life and need a partner who loves life too. My children are grown and have lives of thier own.....I love that and I am very proud of them.....I love being able to be my childrens' friend now.....and yes I do have grandkids.

I am in the stage of life where I want to "play" (I'm not talking about sex here) I love my carer and love to escape....but escaping isn't as fun by yourself. I don't have to be entertained, and really value wonderful conversation, and intelligence (not stuffy),confident, but not arrogant and the ability to laugh and have fun...even if it just taking a walk. Must be passionate about life. I love to dance....am I good at it? well, I won't win dancing with the star, but I enjoy it. I love to travel and explore new things.

I would love to get to know someone to see if we are compatable...(really more than compatable) we can laugh together and we can talk about anything.... I guess I want a friend and lover for life....

This tends to be exciting, but also creates the butterflies feelings....which is great because it says I am not too old to feel them. This would be agreed upon by both of us.....coffee or a lunch meeting probally is the best....but really I am open to anything to be able to get to know you.