Hi...Please read the profile before you message me.. it will answer alot of the questions you may ask... I'm looking for good, open hearted email conversation and we can go from there. Plz dont IM/email me with sex talk or asking to meet or anything like that... I am recently divorced with a 9 year old son...so I'm just looking for friends and to meet new people online until i feel comfortable.. I am very level headed, Christian girl, and have my life together. I treasure friendships and people who truely have my best interest at heart.
I am a pretty blunt person(some have said RAW and Uncut).. only becuase I have learned that when you beat around the bush.. things get misunderstood and then you end up wasting everyone's time. Some never take the time to know me and tell me I am too rough or raw or I think too highly of myself.. but those that take the time.. find out.. its actually me being a genuin person... then you love me to death. I feel you and I are important.. and if we dont think highly of ourselves.. no one else will. Belive me.. I have plenty of flaws.. but I am working on them.. (lots of self help books.. I will get to them once I read the book on procrascination..)
Yes.. that is my Ninja 250.. I'm not good enough to give anyone a ride.. but I'm learning ;)
I enjoy relaxing and just kicking back and enjoying the things that make me laugh. NO hook ups please.. no sex talk..(honestly guys, save it for the teenage girls that have nothing better to talk about)
I am not looking for a boyfriend.. nor a lover.. nor a possible future relationship. I want to actully get to know you as a person and a friend If we click.. maybe we can meet one day... But initially.. I like to chat.. IM.. email.. and get to know you that way.. I have taken a chance by putting my pictures up here..so please extend the same courtesy by having a photo.. its just nice to know who I am communicating with.
While I am aware making friends includes meeting, I am currently not interested in physically meeting up with anyone. My son is very important to me... so is my career and my individuality. I love to take down time and email and chat when I finally sit back to unwind. I love good conversation, while flattery is WONDERFUL... it does not fullfill "good conversation". I have dealt with way too much drama meeting guys face to face... even if we were just meeting as friends.. so I prefer to get to know people through email and chat.. and if after a while... you are still around, we must have clicked and I'm sure I will know if I'm comfortable meeting you...or better yet.. I may be saving you some time because you may not care for me..
I know it may be a little unorthodox, but hey.. I'm speaking from experience.... its not for everyone.. so I understand. If I dont reply to an email or IM.. it may be becuase I'm having problems with my internet.. I usually use my handy Centro phone to check my account. Happy hunting
oh yeah.. and my beutiful mother is on POF now too!!
Not a date... how about ...A first "meet" would probably be over coffee or at the beach talking and laughing.. making fun of each other and making fun of other people...
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