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About Me
hi my names matt here's my story ,,,11/17/2001 i was walking home crossing the street a block away from my house .i got hit by a van,7 weeks later i came out of my coma to find out i broke my pelvis .and the van hit me so hard it rattled my brain like if you shake a baby ,it gets rattled resulting in me losing my speech completely.being taught to learn to walk again i started going to therapy to learn how ,which i did.i worked and worked very hard every day ,i never gave up with a walker,cane .my balance is coming back slowly,i have or had very poor balance, i would fall allot every day i do things and it gets better i just started using a cane ,not great but its a start.and i just took steps without a cane or walker.i even have proof of it on video lol and yes i am showing off yay me. ....and i talk they taught me how to say sounds thats it the rest was up to me.so i bought a tap recorder and a list of words, phrases to say.and hours and hours i did speech just to get it the best i can. so here i am still busting my ass with my life on hold until i am the best at walking ,talking ,i was 35% when i started i am now 9 5%recovered trying for 100 but i think i will only get 98 lol in school i never got 100 any way lol. oh well ,every picture u see is after my crash ,im alive to share this with you . i sound like an Italian jew from Brooklyn ,but with my speech lol sometimes its like an Italian jew drunk from Brooklyn. this is only on bad days the weather my allergies.ps..4/13/2008i guess my balance is allot better my speech is better .everything takes time so time i have thats my story thats what im about i am a hard worker working on my therapy. work...... email is njdmjm@yahoo.com thats also my messenger heres my walking video first time in 5 years if YOU WANA SEE IT GIVE ME YOUR EMAIL please don't ask my name or what happen its all here.7/30/2008 well as of now i am fixing my arm from a torn rotary cuff ,i guess i was lifting to much weight ,but hey now im just fixing my arm still doing exercise for the rest of me.all threw my therapy it was up and down,every time i took a step forward id get knocked back three steps.the latest being the whole arm thing,but i get around it sooner or later.i am far from over with this therapy making myself better so .my balance gets better every single day i just need my body and balance to come in together at the same time lol.its been a tough road i been on and im still going strong i am not the type of person to say waaaaaaaaaah this is to hard to do and quit sry not me no matter what the problem at the time might be i just move on to the next part of my recovery and go back to it at a later time.we all have our problems some worst then others but we do what we need to do so this is what i need to do so i am doing it. my way my pace.i have learned so much about myself and others just threw this site.we are who we are,and there's nothing wrong with it, i hold no grudges with the very few whom i emailed who said nasty things to me and i just said hi , they said not interested .please save your sarcastic emails like your better then everyone because your not . .if somethings is not on here ,something you need to know ,just ask me i don't bite.
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thought all the loser's on this site were gone, now this one.i am me and that's it this is it i get moody i get mad like everyone does.i have thing's im working on,and nothing or no one will change that or me.if it doesn't say on here then ask me about anything..please don't feel funny asking me .its not a problem ,you asking me id rather you did.and don't get mad when i dont answer right back because i will i might be busy thats all so thats it i think lol .one more thing just relax if thing's don't go the way you want them to be .life just goes the way we don't like sometimes,and sometimes it does. OH WELL SHITHAPPEN'S.friend's mean everything to me you never know what a friendship leads to.,i been on this site a long time,just talking with people,meeting a few just friends.i met a few very nice people emailing back n fourth chatting with them ect.and came across a few idiots whom i just emailed out of the blue to say hi.most was an awesome response a few idiots telling me they are not interested lol.I was just saying high get over yourself,most i talk to read my profiles or i told them in emails,and they have been great ,a great support if you will .and like i have said in my profile you never know what a friendship leads to.i have met a friend at first we started emailing then phone then meeting in person and just like that ,are friendship turned to love.yes it happened no matter where it was we are together now so where and when we met is not the issue. we met that's all that matters ,and what get's me in my heart so good is she loves me for me regardless of the way life plays its games on people,and my faults lol.i don't play games,im blunt i want you to be truthful.at least talk to me we are grownups. ,us meeting was in the cards lol im still going to do my emails to people saying hi or your a cutie so,please save the not interested emails don't right back if you cant or wont say hi back lol trust me i will live. thank you for reading my profile.read my comments you'll see who my baby is .yeah i like metal,yes im nuts ,free spirit type.i look at it this way .life throws you bs hands . play that hand the best you can.oh well if things don't go your way ,so don't cry about it.life is what you make of it. Veni, Vidi, Vici means I came, I saw, I conquered,
 | I met Matt on POF in March after reading his profile. I cried @ first, not out of pity, but more in celebration of his success story.
My 1st message to him was applauding his courage & strength of character to, after 7 long years, still have that same strength & courage to wake up every morning with the same, (I hate to use this word, but,) disabilities and go on with his life.
In the 1st message, my last line was "I would be honored to be your friend". We started emailing each other everyday on POF for a couple of months then decided we'd talk via cell phone. To make a long story short, after many txts/IM's/emails/fone calls, we met in person and I am so proud to say that we are now seeing each other.
A stronger man i will never meet. Through all he has been through, he manages to inspire me on a daily basis to be a better person. Through adversity, he manages to pick himself up, dust himself off & just continues on his path toward perfection. He never gives in to weakness and through it all manages to muster up courage that amazes me on a daily basis.
I am a nurse and I have to say that in 29yrs of nursing it is rate to see someone who has this much self-determination. Failure is not an option with Matt. He will take nothing less than perfection, and again, inspires me on a daily basis to be the best that I can be.
If you read his profile, please, don't feel sorry for him, don't pity him. Instead, applaude his success; admire his courage and tenacity. He is the most amazing person I have ever met and I am a better person for knowing him. Again, he doesn't believe in failure; he won't take no for an answer; he has a drive, an inner strength about him that is surpassed by no one that I know. He has very high expectations of both himself and those around him
When I see Matt, I don't see a man who uses a walker because his balance is off, I see a man on a mission, a man with an almost super strength and courage that I admire. I see the man who inspires me, makes ME laugh; I see the man I love. So, please, save your sarcasm and criticisms for the other assholes on this site who are only looking for sex.
If you want to meet a great guy, someone who will never judge you, who will stand behind you even when he thinks you're wrong, then by all means, send a message. But remember ladies, HANDS OFF, he's mine!! |
 | It took me a while to write a testimonial for Matt. What does one write? - This one definitely requires a lot of serious concentration!!! :lol: (No, not really!) What it comes down to,... this is THE MOST AMAZING PERSON ever. His fight and will surpass any1 I have ever come across, and he has superseded whatever challenges and failures that life and people have thrown his way. Matt has an inner strength about him; a drive; a fire within that I admire,... so few have it. We all can learn from Matt. I know I can, he is my inspiration. |
 | matt i think u are such a sweetheart. you are such a sexy,handsome,strong,respectful man. you are a great friend and im always here for you if you ever need anything. best of luck to you babe!!!!xoxoxo |
 | since know this guy i find hes the strongest man i ever met he has over come a lot , a sweet n hansum guy, .keep on sweetheart u got my support till later hansum .you have my vote n i would love to learn hockey |
 | I went to school with Matt over 30 years ago, and he still has the same spirit he did as a child. The devistating accident has not take that away from him. Every time I talk to Matt he makes me smile, he's fun to be around, and I wish him all the best ALWAYS! Love you Matt !!! Hope we will always be friends. Wanda |
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