I have been single for a long time by choice, I just have had no reason not to be single. But as they say everyone needs someone. I'm looking for someone who can change my mind and give me a reason to share my life. I am a very honest and loyal person, but I'm not your typical girl next door. My interests are really all over the place. I love art, wine, social events, but I'm into hard rock and tattoos. I love to people watch you can learn so much by passing the time observing others. I'm not looking for someone just like me I want someone to open my eyes to new worlds. Someone with an open mind. I want the person I'm with to be my best friend. We all say that but that is very important to me. I want to be with someone who wants to be with me not needs to be with me.
I have a 17 yr old son that lives with his father. I have no drama in my life and refuse to allow any in. I work a lot and I don't have a lot of time to meet someone, so if you're looking for a "hook up" don't waste my time, I don't need the computer for that. I want someone I can talk with, not to. I want to be with someone who thinks for himself, someone who is his own man and isn't afraid to speak his mind. Call me old-fashioned but I have no intrest in a man that I can push around. I want someone who is willing to take the lead when needed. Money, looks, those things come and go. What I want is a spark, just someone to connect with. Must have own car/truck. If you have a motorcycle, you must also have a vehicle with doors. You MUST have own place, which means you do not live with your mother, exgirlfriend/wife, or 3 roommates. Also your home must not have wheels. You must have a job but also time to hang out. If your job takes up all of your time and you don't have the time to spend getting to know someone why are you here? Don't waste my time. Don't whine about how your are broke but by the same token don't tell me how much money you make either. That is just a turn off. Something's are on a need to know bases. I don't really care what your "bodytype" is as long as you don't crush me or you don't spend all your free time in the gym. (i.e., No muscle heads) I don't care if you're a smoker, (I'm an ex-smoker myself) just have some respect. Speaking of that, RESPECT is a big one for me. Do not make some rude remark about my endowments (that picture is a test, but yes it is me) I will block you. I believe in treating people in how I want to be treated and expect nothing less. There is nothing wrong with being a little old fashion, like opening doors, or a man who calls when he says he's going to. I myself an a little old fashion. My father taught me that a good girl doesn't call a man all the time. Like I said I prefer a man who is a MAN. Not a boy. If you would rather spend time hanging out with your friends, again, why are you here? I don't do country music, and really rather not listen to rap/hiphop. I believe the music you listen to does define who you are. Also please have a grasp of the English language. I'm not an English teacher, but I don't read ebonics.
If I have left anything out please feel free to ask. I don't normaly make first contact, so if you're interested drop me a line.
*NOTE: I'm not sure what all the favorites is about. I would say less than 5% of the people who have added me to their favorites has actually talked to me. I've tried to delete them but they just add me back. So if you add me to your favorites just drop a line and say hello or something and if I delete you, just let it stay that way. Thanks~

I would like to make it something to remember. Somewhere quite so we're able to talk. Meet for coffee then go from there I may be up for about anything.

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Age between 29 and 49
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