I'm looking for someone that has been through the motions & is ready to move on to the next step. BUT, I'm not going to force anything, If she's out there....maybe. low maint.attractive, self sufficient possiably w/ a little spunk- confidence goes ALONGWAY, no drama - I'm past ALL of that & really don't have the time to deal with it & won't. Will I chase you around the house dragging my walker when the kids are grown & gone, or will you beat me with your cane???? who knows, really???? the thought is great but if you're not with/ in an hours drive whats the chance we'd ever meet?

Otherwise its really simple- I have my boys more than average(every weekend) But the boys Moms (yeah both of them) & I get along better than most. However, I'd love to have a reason to re-arrange my schedule!!!

If you're still reading this.... Im impressed.

I only had a few pics of myself w/ Gavin- not using him as bait - but hes something else & so is his brother. I dont expect you to meet either of the boys right away- that will come...IF YOU PASS THE TEST?!

So what Am I looking for? not an option really- I cant understand why so many profiles are looking for "the one, mr right, any good guys left, sick of this or that" I guess Im not looking for anything really. Attraction is a reality, nothing more happens without it. Is there such a person as attractive (to me-NOT society), funny, with a quick wit & STABLE?? (job, DEALT with the past not dealing with, just a handle on life in general)

If this is you great!! I hope we can chat @ some point.

I know this is possiable, If your life isnt what you want it to be, take control & change it for yourself!!

Geeze-its been that long- but Id have to day that Comedy is a pretty good 1st date- no stress, casual, & in a public place....

Live within 75 miles.