I think that online dating can be tough because there is this pressure for that immediate "spark" when you are meeting someone for the first time. That spark usually takes time to grow and develop after you get to know someone. I think a lot of times if there isn't that chemistry immediately, people move on to the next person. Sad, because you could be missing out on an opportunity for a long term relationship. About me: I like going out and trying new bars and restaurants, walking along the lakefront, seeing live music, going to the beach or a festival...to name a few. I also like movies and discussing over a drink afterward - great movies are the best when they are shared with others. I am looking for a woman who is like myself in that she is extremely loyal, dependable, honest and trustworthy. Someone who is very good at communicating their thoughts and feelings which is key to making a relationship work. Also, somebody who is very laid back, easy going and down to earth. She must also love to laugh a lot and not take life too seriously but enjoy living it to the fullest.

I think the best first date would be to meet out for a drink and see if there is any chemistry and/or compatibility.