I have gone through the past couple years trying to uncover or determine that formula that works to create healthy, happy, sound interactions and relationships between men and women. My conclusion to my research: THERE ISN'T ONE! At least there isn't one that works all the time. In turn I have decided to make one of my friend's favorite quotes mine. That is simply 'enjoy the moment'. The moments I want to enjoy with honest, sincere men include getting acquainted, spending time(indoors or out of town), experiencing the satisfaction of people enjoying my company. This is an abbreviated list but if you feel like you can help me with this newly recognized goal, get back with me!

The number 1 importance is the ability to converse. Whether or not the conversation occurs before or during the first date is the determining factor as to what activity would be best.