UPDATE!!! 7/18/08!! If I block your IM it is ONLY TEMPORARY.. Be patient!! I prefer to talk to a few people at a time.. That said...

UPDATE!!! 7/18/08!! Are there any *FAMILY*GOAL-ORIENTATED*TECHNO-SAVVY gentlemen souls out there?? I am seeking casual friendship in the beginning.. (you know! that "other kind of energy :)! )who wants to go somewhere such as Deland/Deltona Doggy Park...?? Love-Me-Love-My-Dog?..SERIOUSLY!!...The first couple times we meet I'm getting to know you in a keep it real kind of way. I find there are too many useless distractions otherwise. For myself, very easy to get *off track/out of focus* while I'm trying to get to REALLY know this person *you*!..Like the saying goes... Live and Let Live... I love and am open to a debate w/intellectual conversat. At times I will run the mouth too much pretending to know everything. Are you going to prove me wrong??!! So please!! I'm open to constr criticism. *Thank you for inquiring*.

Would like to meet a *GENTLEMAN* expecting to be friends.. then see what happens..:) I will enjoy someone who will "tell me the way it is" and doesn't try to sugarcoat anything. I want to continue working on being a better listener and not just a *know it all* ..LOL.. There really is a reason why God gave us 2 ears and only one mouth!!..LOL..

Seriously, in meeting on our first date..hmmm..well, I have my own unique way of communicating. I'll just say that my *attention span* is defined by motive and desire. I am motivated by having the pleasure of meeting someone who has there own unique perspectives of communicating as well!! ;) But by the desire to be honest with eachother is important if there just trying to impress but doesn't seem to be a genuine connection. I have found through experiences that it's often at the awkward moments in life when you really see through to the core of someone. If there isn't a connection than that's that..it is what it is and it's just not the end of the world!!

I look at it as a opportunity to have stepped out and view others desires and aspirations. Hey!! It's a learning experience at the very least. He should also be comfortable in his skin... Flaws and all-to have the insight of we're all running this race called life as best as we can..and he should always wants to better himself as well. As well though being content where he is now..:)

Wow, I can ramble on! He has to have the desire to keep up with a woman like myself. I am *high maintainence* when I want to be.. and it's ok to just not be interested. Rejection is a part of it all..It's all just wanting the fun of it.. A little *dramatic* at times..YES!!! Comedian at times..YES!!! Being balanced accordingly..YES!!!...

I enjoy watching anything to do with NASCAR AND FOOOTBALL...I'm not into impressing the gent on our first date. I don't have to as I am well dressed and put together regularly anyway. No Hot RED PUMPS for me.(at least on the first date..LOL)..hmmm...

I am into running and working out being a VERY HIGH priority. I am continuing my education in skincare which is ongoing. It will happen!! Working towards furthering my education..attaining that license has been in my heart for quite sometime.

*Church* is important to me and I like to stay involved. I BELIEVE... like I say.. FAITH*FAMILY*FRIENDS..If I missed anything that your interested in, please don't hesitate..!! And REMEMBER!! Wink at me!!

Just go with the flow and hopefully there may be a connection. A starbucks or coffe in midday. Walk at the dog park. I PREFER NOT TO DRINK 2 much on the 1st time meeting because I want to get to know the real U!! No, I am DEFINATELY not a prude...however, I know what I want..Thanks!!

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