Novel anyone? ;)

Novel anyone? ;)

I guess I should tell you a little about me... I'm a bit of a nerd and a bit of a dork, and I always have fun. I tried to be cool once, but it was to much work and not nearly enough fun. I'm random, I like driving with no set destination, just to see what lies around the next corner.. I can possess serious focus if I'm fascinated but if I'm not I have been accused of having borderline ADD which makes me smile because I don't. I like adventure, spontaneity. I love it when my day takes me to a place I could never have imagined when I woke up. I believe in honesty and telling the truth so that the people in my life are there for the real me. Not for some false front that matches what I know they want. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. Life is to short for that.

Seriously people why waste your time trying to be something your not or what someone wants you to be, when instead you could be with or finding the person that wants exactly what you already are. If everyone would just start being themselves from date one on, this dating stuff would be so much easier. and there wouldn't be that big surprise when that great person you were dating finally got tired of pretending to be someone else lol. and on that note, I have a question? when did so many girls become such big sports fans? every other girls profile on here says they love to watch the game while having a beer?? I'm a guy but watching sports is like watching paint dry. and beer? I suspect was originally created by carbonating fermented horse urine. seriously I don't know anyone who thought beer tasted good the first time they tried it, they say it's an acquired taste. If I have to drink something that tastes awful it better be good for me, like the wheat grass my grandma makes me drink when I visit. I can only enjoy watching sports, if it's the finals, the super bowl or the world series but the regular season, forget it.

there are many sides to me. I go from being the energizer bunny to lets just snuggle and watch a movie. I left school before finishing my degree but I'm educated and like to talk about everything from physics to cheesy pop culture to the meaning of the world.. I love deep philosophical discussions. and I love beauty, tranquility and also crazy random fun like dancing in front of the car at a stop light(but I still blame the vodka for that. and I rarely drink)to talking to strangers and getting the tired cashier to smile as I buy my groceries. If each day I can make a small positive impact in the world even if it's just by giving my empty water bottle to the guy going through the trash cans collecting them.. then it was a worth while day and I have served a part of my purpose.

I believe in depth and owning what you are, being true to that and yet still being courteous and kind to all who cross my path. every action or inaction has an impact we choose to make that a positive or a negative and I always do my utmost to choose to find the positive. I'm looking for a spark something magical to cross my path when I find Her or She finds Me... I'll know it. I think life is what you make it I can have fun stuck in traffic. we choose joy or pain. everything we see outside of us is merely a reflection of what lies within us. I believe in live and let live differences can enhance us every bit as much as they can divide us. Life is a beautiful adventure all it requires is an open heart and an open mind. If you like what you see and what you have read message me. if I don't reply I do wish you well. I just may not think you are what I'm looking for. and If wrote you and you don't respond I wish you well also. There is a key for every lock And I am looking for my key... or perhaps the lock that matches my key. That’s one side, on the other side I'm pretty happy just dating. So I'm open to pretty much whatever.

People look at my pictures and make a whole lot of assumptions so to clear a little of that up.. I have a serious and I mean SERIOUS baby face. I'm chronologically 37 and literally NO one who meets me in person ever believes that without picture ID. and even then some think it's a fake ID. I'm not a model but I used to.

I moved here from Canada to Act, and I love it. try not to hold that against me, just because you may have dated an actor that was a douche bag doesn't mean that we all are. I have been very lucky, lucky enough to have had some success. Luckier still to have side ventures to make a living and not have to park cars or wait tables, not that there is anything wrong with that, God Knows I waited more than my share of tables in my time ;) I'm super lucky that my side ventures allow me to set my own hours. If your looking for a sugar daddy to spoil you with a checkbook you should look elsewhere. But if you like being spoiled with affection, if your my girl I could do that ;) I want a partner in crime not a trophy, a woman with hopes and dreams, aspirations and goals, a girl who believes and knows life is full of magic, a girl that is happy and feels complete and wants a guy to share that and adventures with, rather than needing a guy to make her feel complete. I am very rich in spirit, I love my life, I am very happy, I am so lucky that I get to pursue my dreams and have friends and family that I love and love me in return. Now If I could just find an amazing person to share some of that with...?

I have been told by the few people I have met from here that I look even better in person, I'm not convinced they are being honest, or maybe it's because you can't get a sense of how tall I am, and you girls seem to really like tall ;) I look younger than I am and I also act younger. Being an adult has nothing to do with being serious and boring. I know when it's time to be serious and when it's time to have fun :)

To the few woman I have met that look nothing like their pictures.. seriously? show who you are today. That is more than enough for someone, it should be enough for you. So just show that, that way some one who wants just what you are can find you. I'm showing you the real me, so please show me the real you. Not how your physical shell used to look or how you photo shopped it to look, but just how it is. flaws can be beautiful. and as my grandfather said "There is an ass for every saddle, the trick is just to get the right two together" ;)


This life is but a blink of an eye compared to the age of the universe. 367 years from now it won't matter if you were super rich or dirt poor the only thing that will matter is how much you loved... the impact of that lasts forever.

Meet you and see if we like each other.... coffee, tea, ice cream, hot chocolate, whatever... somewhere public where we can talk and see if we click if we do we could maybe go on some random adventure, see what happens next. If sparks fly sweet ;) But if it's a dud... at least we tried, right?