My perfect relationship would include lots of laughter, great conversation, and intimacy with a man who is attractive, courteous, sensitive, and well educated. "Intimacy" to me means something emotional as well as sexual, at the very least a good friendship. I get along best with men my age and younger, significantly older and I do not tend to mesh well. As long as you are at least 21, feel free to email me if you think we'd enjoy each other's company. I'm open to anything from a casual FWB situation all the way to a deep and abiding love.

I am occasionally sarcastic but mostly sweet, into beaches, independent films, reading, spending time outdoors. I am also into working out and it would be nice if you were too. I really love to salsa dance, can you keep up?

My husband and I have a polyamorous, or open, marriage. You need to be Ok with this and realize that you are never going to be the only man in my life. My marriage is great, just a bit unconventional, and I am not looking to get out of it. Trust, respect, and honesty are very important to me and they should be to you as well. If you have an open relationship too, that's a huge plus for me.

If you think you are too busy to keep in touch regularly, I don't want to meet you. If you have EVER pretended you wanted a friendship or a relationship in order to get into someone's pants for a one-time encounter, I definitely don't want to meet you.
I don't play games, I hope you don't either. I have no interest in cybersex, phone sex, or anything that falls short of the real thing. In my experience, men who want to do this in advance of meeting me are not serious about ever meeting in person.

The following categories of men should please not waste their time contacting me: anyone who ended their education at high school (working on more is fine though, grad school is a plus!), men with mustaches alone (yes, I am completely serious about that), Republicans, or anyone who doesn't know the difference between "your" and "you're." I know that people with those attributes may still be stellar human beings, but this site is all about attraction, sorry.

Sexual safety is a big priority for me and it should be for you as well.

If you don't post a pic, you need to send one if you want me to take you seriously.

Thoughtful conversation, laughter, great coffee, and the perfect kiss.