I am a 40yr old women that knows what she wants but am NOT looking to meet the wrong person, so I thought I would try this. I will be honest, up front of what I am NOT looking for, I dont date outside of my race, I really dont care for the bald or red headed & like dark haired men. And Over weight, meaning, I like a slight beer belly but anything beyond that "NOT INTERESTED", anything over 45, I would really have to take a second look. Hate too seem so needy but I have been hurt one too many time with game playing and lies that I will not be interested!. I will tell you what I do like and what kind of man I am interested in: I think very sexy and hot of a "construstion man", I like brown haired men, I like guys that are over 5'9 and are "handy man" type around the house. I am not into the "pretty boy". What I have to offer is alot. I love to cook, and yes, I also work..., but I love to make the man feel special... That kind of things you would find out if there is a connection... I do have 2 children which are great, my son that is 17 and daughter that is 12... O wait I also have my "other" man in my life that is my dog... he makes me smile every morning I wake up. Well, I guess to see what happens from here will be a complete suprise... but dont reply PLEASE, if you dont thnk I'd reply. I guess look on My space "sexymama39" and really not being rude... I see some of the same guys are still replying and if I have not replied, PLEASE dont contact me. Again, I will let you know when I think there is a connection, but I am really attracted to the construction, "mans man" kind of guy... I am the women looking for a "bad boy" that needs to be tamed... LOL

I am pretty much open to what would be offered. I would think maybe meeting for a drink and seeing if there is a connection.