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if we were all perfect we wouldnt be here on pof ;-) wise words from a wise female friend , . my yahoo im id is paradittel2

Most of my Friends say that I'm a Kind , Honest , , and Funny Person who loves to Kid Around and have Fun and joke a lot ..and im always a gentlemen ,I do have my serious side and enjoy good conversation on a variety of topics , and granted I'm not perfect ,,but try to be the best i can be ,,,

I am looking for someone who wants a Long Term Relationship ,,,someone who is smart and fun and willing to give and take and work on a relationship ,,,a spiritual soul who's into arts and music and shares some of my interest but yet has some of there own to share and make life interesting ,,a honest lady who will want to spend time with me yet have her own life and friends to bring back to our relationship to keep it interesting and thriving ,,,as i will do the same ,,,someone who can stand on her own two feet yet let me be there for her to support and encourage her in every way ,,,

Im very much into and love Music .as well as Cooking ,,,,cooking is something I have done Professionally all my life , starting in the Army and then going to one of the finest Culinary Art Schools in the Nation..... I love to Sing ,,,and I was State Choir in High School ... i also enjoy writing Poetry and Song Lyrics ,,,

the biggest joy of my life is my Son who is the best part of my life ,, he is 16 and has changed my life ever since he was born ,,,,he is the best thing that ever happen to me ;-) ,,,and he is such a great kid ,,he in R.O.T.C ;-) and loves sports ...and even though ive had to play duel roles as a Mr Mom ,,ill have to admit , I am not the best father , but he is the best kid

My biggest Strength is that of all my friends , who enhance and make my life so much richer ,,, some ive known years and years and some i met since ive been here in Arlington but either way I hope I give them as much happiness as they give me ;-) my Greatest Asset is that of Forgiveness and Understanding ..for to me Forgiveness as the Greatest Gift gave to People and Understanding is the making of Wisdom .. there is no Truer Love that that of Forgiveness and Acceptance of others.
I love People ,, the more Unique the Individual the more i like them ,,,,

My Interests in things is endless as Life itself ...just give me a Topic or Ideal and ill enjoy growing with you


i do enjoy Weight Lifting and the Gym and a healthy lifestyle ,,,Im into it for my Health and to keep in Shape and it makes me feel Great ,,, and afterward i look forward to the Steam Room , Sauna and Pool ( cause i love to swim ),,, and Whirlpool
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im someone who loves to listen and Cuddle and Kiss ,,, Romance is my thing , i thrive on it ,,,and am very Passionate ....and looking for someone who is as much ,,i'm looking for a person ,, not a play thing ,,,and i hope to make a few friends along the way ,, check out my
My!space.com/john_lepire add me ;-) john

a poem i wrote , my latest in fact

i always like to make a good impression , ,,so id like to do something the person im meeting likes to do ,, it also helps me get to know them
things that i like to do are visiting unique coffee shops or a restaurant or just a walk in a park .. anywhere we could talk and get to know each other and have some fun and enjoy ourselves and hopefully make friends if nothing else