I am a fun loving person with a great sense of humor who enjoys the simple things in life such as long walks, sightseeing, playing sports or a romantic dinner at home. Honesty and trust is very important to me, just really tired of all the games people play. I am a strong independent woman who can hold my own ground and paired with the right person the possibilities are endless....
Here are some details of who I am and what I’m looking for- I’m 5’3 caramel complexion I am ½ Portuguese and ½ Brazilian I’m 34yrs old and have no kids (by choice). I believe a child needs two parents living in the same house and refuse to have what is known as a “baby daddy”. Anyone can make a baby but it takes a real man to be a father. I am set in my career and very stable. I took a break from dating for a while to get my head clear but now ready to make new friends and hopefully with friendship it can lead to something else. I am not desperate for love as I know if you look for it, you will never find it. I just let nature take its course and will go where ever life takes me.
Now for this site.. Please don’t send me perverted emails or get upset if I don’t respond. It could be that I’m either busy or you may not be what I’m looking for. As for the guys who are on this site and still involved in a relationship- SHAME ON YOU! What would make you think I would be ok with talking to you when you’re already involved in a relationship. That only shows me that if I ever dated you I would have to expect the same. Get it together and make a decision on what you want. It shouldn’t be that hard. Obviously you are not happy in your relationship that is why you are here on this site.. Be a man and make a decision on what you want and stop looking for a security blanket.
Is there truly a soul mate? Someone on whom you can always depend? Someone who brings sunshine into your life. More than a lover and always a friend? When you hear their voice and know that they're safe... It is then when a smile lights up your face. To know true love, you want to give of yourself. Thoughts are of them and no one else It matters not if the road to happiness is a bumpy ride. As long as your soul mate is there by your side. You can handle the storms for you see sunny weather. Life is beautiful when you are together. Borrow from tomorrow's sun if there are clouds today. Pick flowers and savor them, as you pass along the way. If you find your soul mate and you love them so ... Never forget to let them know Love with fervor full of fire. Let them know they are your hearts desire. And if they give it all back to you. Then you will know that they love you true. Perhaps it was fate ... For you have found your SOUL MATE always loving you...
The Choices We Make In Life (true or false-it depends)
The less you associate with some people, the more your life will improve. Any time you tolerate mediocrity in others, it increases your mediocrity. An important attribute in successful people is their impatience with negative thinking and negative acting people. Friends that don't help you climb will want you to crawl. Your friends will stretch your vision or choke your dream. Consider this: Never receive counsel from unproductive people. Never discuss your problems with someone incapable of contributing to the solution, because those who never succeed themselves are always first to tell you how.
"In Prosperity Our Friends Know Us. In Adversity We Know Our Friends."
"Never make someone a priority when you are only an option for them."
"If you are going to achieve excellence in big things, you develop the habit in little matters. Excellence is not an exception, it is a prevailing attitude."......Colin Powell
First Date
Well for a first date I am willing to try anything once. I love to watch movies, taking long walks, going out to dinner it's pretty much fair game.
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Male Age between 31 and 39 Live in United States You must have a picture to contact this user. Must not be looking for Other Relationship Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter Must not be looking for Activity Partner Must not do drugs Must not be married Must not smoke
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