What I Like:

I like anything and everything (within reason) that keeps life and love interesting and fun. I love to be happy. I love to be in happy situations and relationships. Life is too short to be miserable or unhappy. If you are unhappy – figure out why – and make the needed changes. I like balance in my life - keeping the mind and body fit; keeping work and play in perspective; balancing the physical with the emotional / spiritual; stopping to smell the roses. I like to: work out with weights; bike in the back bay or the beach; travel for work or pleasure; visit exotic islands far away; find culture in plays or in ancient lands; listen to live music (jazz, blues, reggae, island sounds); take getaway weekends; explore; meet new people; dining in or out; casual or fine dining; BBQ's; great conversation (an aphrodisiac!); watching and discussing movies; passion; motivation; the beach; walks on the pier; sunsets; cuddling; hand holding; smooching; endless summers and sunsets; kisses that last for days; anticipating that first kiss; delivering that first kiss; waking up with that “good” feeling; thinking about someone else; dreaming; walks on the beach; weekends, Southern California; Newport Beach. I guess that I am just a hopeless (or hopeful) romantic.

Who I Am:

I am Mr. Wonderful! (kidding - but I loved the movie!). I am one of a kind. Unique (But so are all God's children). I am all of the following in a uniquely balanced blend: confident; secure; financially and emotionally stable; Aries; sexy!; passionate; loving; giving (for an only child!); down to earth; mature; responsive; affectionate; diverse; accepting of all people and cultures; well balanced; professional; intelligent; amorous; honest and direct; a good communicator (but don't we all feel that we are?); spontaneous (in a planned sort of way!); optimistic and positive; healthy (no bad vices! - into Wellness); young at heart; a tease; a rebel; playful, fun; funny; romantic; mysterious; touchy feely; independent; a free spirit; sun tanned. I am looking for Mickey Rourke's Kim Basinger in 9 1/2 weeks. I am a well-grounded Midwest good boy with a few parts bad boy in him. 6’0” 195. Can't Find A Better Man!!

Who I Am Looking For:

I am looking for a lifelong friend. A best friend for life. A partner. A teammate. A soul mate. A lover. Synergy and chemistry. A woman who is confident, strong, healthy, smart, successful and at peace with herself and with life. A connection. Chemistry – physical, emotional and spiritual. A woman “with a mind for business and a bod for sin.” I have no age or weight hang-ups. I am very open-minded and am amazed sometimes on what arouses me. I like a reliable, trustworthy, considerate, passionate, affectionate (touchy / feely) woman with a big heart and one that is not a flake. Anna Nicole Smith or Jayne Mansfield with brains. I am open to meeting all types of women (everyone is different) but prefer a taller and/or shorter thicker woman. Nurses and teachers feel free to respond (givers tend to work in these fields). I find that I am attracted to a tall, voluptuous or athletic, confident, intelligent, successful, attractive, passionate, giving and loving woman. Maybe a pretty plus-size model type (like an Emme). Cute with a shorter and thicker teddy-bear type build with the above qualities also works for me. I also like some muscle tone on a woman (muscles are sexy!!), maybe on a big-boned woman. A “real” woman – no doubt! Plastic or fake women look somewhere else…that dog don’t hunt with me! I welcome diversity and enjoy it (sounds like an EEO ad).