Hey, I'm Debra, a BBW from New Jersey. I'm intelligent, sarcastically funny, and an overall good person. I am looking for the male version of myself because, God, I love me!!! I enjoy a man who can both take the sarcasm and dish it back. I'm always up for a lively debate, and if you can rile me...all the better! Multi-syllabic words turn me on (sorta), but only if used in complete sentences, and in a contextually accurate manner. Although, a well-defined clavicle is quite attractive, too. I'm anal about spelling and grammar...so if you don't know when to use then as opposed to than, THEN don't bother replying. Yes, my pics show some cleavage...if that's all you want to discuss, next!!! Is there anything better than a real bad boy who's a real good man? Anyway, if you fit the above description and want to chat, give me a shout. Ciao ciao.

On a first date, I think it's best to go casual, and do drinks and dinner, which will hopefully be accompanied by interesting conversation that flows freely with a lot of laughter.