I admit I view other profiles and gather information that seems "ah, yes, that's a good thing to inform someone of. Trying to perfect the exceptional profile. Other than our own experiences, we learn from others. I've read profiles that state "don't contact me if you have drama." Well, I agree to an extent. However life IS drama. Its not so much the drama itself, but now we handle the occurance. How we allow the situation to effect our lives. I'll be the first to admit, sure I have drama, and I don't always handle it the best way possible, but I only know of one person who was and will be perfect. wink. And I'm NOT him, neither are you!

For the people who say "don't conact me if you have drama".....ponder this..."We all go through some of the biggest changes in our entire lives, changes that shape our characters, mold our minds, form our prejudices, changes that create voids and wounds that are engraved in our souls". -SD/GK How can life not have drama!!

Little imperfections make people real!

Looking for a well balanced man, who knows what he wants. Can openly show and display affection, with the exception that too much PDA's aren't acceptable. PDA's (public display of affections) however don't get PDA's mixed up the "get a room". A quicker kiss, hug, touch those are acceptable....but not sucking face...gesh! I think you get the picture.

DO NOT CONTACT IF YOU fall into one of the following catagories (not necessarly in any order)
1. Live with your parents
2. Have stood someone up in the past year
3. Reboundint
4. Wanted by the authorities
5. Been in prison
6. Do not have unlimited texting on your cell phone package. j/k
7. Find comfort in alcohol
8. Take behavioral drugs
9. Need to take behaviorla drugs and claim you don't
10. Don't have a valid drivers license
11.

CONTACT IF YOU HAVE interest in/open to/do on a regular basis: Some of these are tongue in cheek.
1. Like napping while listening to rain/thunder storms
2. People watching with making up stories of their life
3. Enjoy giving and receiving unlimited text messages...thought I was going to type something else didn't you.....naughty, naughty.. however...ahem...
4. Working out in the yard, maybe cutting grass, planting flowers, or sitting on the porch swing.
5. Strolling thru flea markets. The Loading Dock in Grafton is good example. Have a glass or two of Zin at the bar and watch the boats on the River.
6. Creating dialog to go along with a silent black and white film. Try it...fun!!

RESPOND IF YOU AGREE with the following:
1. It doesn't really matter what we do, as long as together.
2. I have no interest in cars, but I'd go to a car show, cause you liked it.
3. Yes, I'll watch that chick flick with you. Even though i don't wanna.
4. Call me in the middle of the day for no reason other than to brighten my day
5. Like a call in the middle of the day for no reason other than to brighten ur day
6. Recycle products. Save a tree
7. Passionate kisses
8. Don't usually speed & and slow down if I kindly ask.
9. Real hugs
10. Don't be suprised if I text you and say "Look at the moon with me, its beautiful". I find full harvest moons to be one of the most beautiful things, I hope you'll stare at it with me, from whereever you are.

MY QUALITIES/TRAITS/CHARACTERISTICS/INTERESTS/HOBBIES/ETC.
1. Be ready on a short notice
2. Dress according to the event, however prefer jeans/tee/sweatshirt
3. Wash the tooth paste down the sink
4. Usually stay busy
5. Excellent time management skills
6. Severly sarcastic sense of humor
7. I have a yearly divorce party in February. Been divorced since 97
8. Going to start a yearly non-smoking party in Febraury. I quit 12-25-07. Guess what we are going to do to celebrate...SMOKE UM if ya got um..totally joking!
9. Music: Yanni..one of my favorites"change sung by Cloe"; Frankie; 80s my absolute favorite. Country is good.

WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR in a significiant other & what would be in return (of course)
1. loving, warm, caring with a great sense of humor
2. Someone with the same core values and some shared interests
3. Someone who is not afraid to give of themselves in a relationship
4. Who holds my hand in front of his friends
5. Who doesn't have an issue with reminding me how much he cares.
6. Enjoys being pampered but can also return affection.
7. Not scared to commit (I'm not talking suicide)
8. Unrequited love......NOT INTERESTED

TURN ON:TO
TURN OFF:TF
NO THIS IS NUTTING LIKE CLAP ON/CLAP OFF.

1. Good looking mens watch...TO
2. Velcro shoes....TF
3. Obviously oogling the opposite sex in front of me. TF
4. If you just LIKE to sleep til noon most days. Cause your not a morning person. TF
5. Body Piercings. TF
6. Sharply dressed. TO
7. Slacks with tan shirt and black blazer. TO
8. Taking off your tie. TO...I'm not talking about a clip on tie either.
9. Procastinators: TF
10. Hickies visible on the neck. TF
11. Romantic person TO


Recent Movies
Scale 1-5 (with 5 being excellent)
Grand Tranio 4
Ben Button 3
Slumdog Millionaire 4.5
Rear Window (classic) 5 STARS
Taken 5 STARS
Tropic Thunder 1
Pinapple Express not even a star
Kalifornia 4
Changeling 2
Miss March 1 (didn't want 2 c my son talked me into it.should've known)
Knowing (Nicholas Cage) 4.5
Up (6-27-09) Wow...one of the most depression cartoons ive ever seen! I cried. WHAT?
Public Enemies (7-15-09) 4 (I like Johnney Depp)
Hancock (7-22-09) 4.5
Harry Potter & The Blood Prince (7-31-09)3. I know who the Prince is..wanna know?
The Man in the Moon....0..omg, glad I didn't waste money at the theatre. Only my time
Lakeview...10-4-08.....3
Righteous Kill...9-19-08.....4.5
Burn After Reading....9-26-08...2.5
The Break Up..9-5-09..3 (had parallels of my last relationship) ROE (rolling of eyes)
The Heartbreak Kid..9-5-09....2
The Family Stone....9-6-09.....2
Because I Said So....9-7-09....3.5
Enough..........10-19-09.......4.5
Holiday.........11-7-09........3


Some Favorite Restaurants either due to food, but mostly atmosphere
Handels Market, Florrisant
McGurke's, Stl
Red Lobster, ANYWHERE
Supitios, Spfld, IL
Alexanders Steak House, Spfld, IL
Pujols 5, STL. (atmosphere is excellent) or anywhere in West Port Plaza
Cugino's, Hazelwood
The Loading Dock, Grafton. Visited on 8-2-09 Wonderful summer day, good band. Great place for people watching!
Grafton Winery. Good patio. Fair people watching site!
Atmosphere of Historic St. Charles Little Hills Winery
Lemp Mansion: Restaurant and Inn. STL. Best place yet!! Great Atmosphere! Watch out I may even tell the server its y

A ride in Metro-Link...we could spend all day, if the conversation is good. Wink. I've never been on Metro, one of the things I wanna do. Who wants to take me?
The Muny
A picnic on Art Hill
Eating at a gud restaurnat at The Hill...done...would like to do again. (Shopping at J. Viviano & Sons "on the Hill" I enjoyed the atmosphere of "old time" grocery store.