The outdoors are my safe haven!! I work indoors all day long so any chance I have to get outside that is most likely where you will find me!!

I like to to read Dean Koontz books because I LOVE the way that he builds suspense and then will leave you hanging for a few chapters!

(If you haven't noticed I also like to use the exclamation point, this comes from the fact that my emotions usually are very strong and are usually never just commonplace!)

I do alot of writing about life and how I see the world. Most of this comes out in the form of poetry but every great once in awhile I'll write a short story. I've tried writing several books but I always think of something to add somewhere. This resulting in run on sentences.

I love to sing and dance!! I dance in my car and wherever you can find me!! Dancing in my car usually leads to people thinking that I'm not paying attention; what they don't realize is that even if I weren't singing and dancing I still wouldn't be paying attention. {The whole "women drivers" stereo type is VERY true of me sometimes!!

AND I SWEAR IF YOU MESSAGE ME AND ALL IT SAYS IS: "WANNA CHAT SOMETIME" YOU ARE NOT WORTH MY TIME.

FOR THE LOVE OF ALL SANITY BE CREATIVE!!!

The problem with "typical" first dates is just that; they are typical. You go out to dinner and/or a movie and try to get to know each other! The issue with movie dates is how much talking really gets done? So what you learn is how this person acts when there is a bright flash of light or a loud noise, you also may learn how this person laughs or atleast how they want you to think that they laugh. People are fickle and may or may not be true with you but this is true of everyone including me.

The issue with dinner dates is that this possibly leads to indiscreet involuntary bodily functions such as burping and farting (don't try to pretend that it hasn't happened). Also how much do you actually learn about this person? You learn how they eat and lets face it people don't eat "nicely" somehow you inevitably get your dinner on you (food messes are best left to the second date once you have had time to atleast get semi comfortable with this person unless this food mess is caused by a food fight which is strongly encouraged!!) So you leave the diner and you have food on you and you have let out an ungodly bodily function, now your embarrased and you have to walk around with a spot on your outfit.

I fully beleive that first dates should be ones that are outside and/or one with guaranteed fun. Such places like the City Museum or Chuck-e-cheese (while this involves food the fun factor out weighs the food factor, becuase if your having fun and you burp you easily just laugh it off, also if you fart you can play it off as a game noise!!) Places like this are always good starters!!!