Just an everyday sort of guy, looking for a warm hearted female. Have my own house and a good job in the centre of Southampton. I have a happy outlook on life and would like to laugh and smile again.

P.S. My surname is Bedwell, hence the name bedders. Dont worry. I'm not one of those.

Has anyone else noticed how rude the clientele is on here? Is it really so hard to reply and say thanks for the message but no thanks?