Must have a visual attraction to start. The depth of a meaningful relationship is multi-layered below the skin, but I just have to like looking at your face. Must have similar laughter factor. Interested in a partner, reliable, and worthy of my trust.

Distance is an issue--I want to be able to meet after work, maybe go to the gym together, play ping pong, have dinner...

Recent photos needed, at least one without sunglasses and hat. You just hafta smell good. If you ever cheated on a significant partner or are in the habit of juggling a bunch of women, please move on.

I pay my own way on dates, seems the fairest way. If this causes a macho melt down we are not a match.

I wish I did not have to mention this next request but learned the hard way it is necessary: If the ONLY ONLY ONLY topic you want to discuss is sex, and if you are tempted to send me a photograph of your private prize, I am calling your mother and telling on you!

I just keep hoping to meet someone who wants a loyal partner, who is ready to join in on family game night, who believes a little romance goes a long way...a guy who is waiting for my ever loving trusting heart.

First dates should be brief, no need for a marathon if there is no face to face "gotta have ya".