...confidence! However, it's pretty lame when you have a pic posted and you're half naked and/or in your underwear!!! If that's not trying too hard, I don't know what is!!! lol
I'm a no B.S. kinda girl, as you can probably tell. You know when you read someone's profile and think they are such a great, cool person and then you meet and you're like, "whoa!??" Yeah...I'd rather meet someone and decide for myself what I think their profile should say - lol. And I'm an equal opportunity gal, so I think you should do the same. If you are looking for a booty call or just a few good times, keep looking. I am not that girl.
I will tell you I'm a very I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-A-N-T chick - "I got my own house, I got my own car...." hehe ok maybe you don't know that song. Sorry! I love to laugh and have fun. Life's too short to be serious all the time, so anytime there is anything funny about (almost) any situation, I roll with it. I LOVE life and am thankful for every day that I have. I'm usually pretty positive in most situations.
I love to cuddle; I think it's about my favorite thing to do...but not on a first date!...long story....but very creepy.

Regarding my body type - I would say "curvy" but that's not an option :-) I'm not skinny by any means, but not obese either.

About the guy I'm looking for: fun, funny, attractive, nice, caring, affectionate, honest, trustworthy....wait....this is like one of those horoscope emails where you read each one and it could apply to anyone. So, how about just a great, well-rounded guy??? That'll work.

Oh, and If you don't have a picture posted, I won't respond to your e-mail.

I think it's best to meet over a drink to see if we even like each other and then go from there. I don't really count this as a date...it's more like our first meeting. :-) If we like each other, then we can have a first date!
Rule #1 - Don't talk about your ex when you are on a date (with myself or anyone else). I'm sure you don't want to hear about my ex's and I damn sure don't want to hear about yours! If you're not over your ex, get back together with her already!!!