SEPTEMBER 2009 UPDATE: I've been super busy this summer (having fun) and haven't had time to be online much. I went on vacation back in the spring and ever since then I've had no luck with my email on this site. It reports that I have x-number of new messages but when I click to read my mail, none are listed. (I thought that my email was just being deleted because I wasn't checking frequently but now I think there is another problem.) So, in short: I'm sorry if I've missed your message.

Now that September is here, I'm going back to school for another degree. Hopefully I'll find some time to come online and figure out what is happening with the mail on this site.

PROFILE:

My boyfriend and I are interested in a feminine bi woman for friendship and play. Please know that we are not just interested in sex but also to befriend someone interesting.

If you're reading this and at all interested, you'll need to contact me. We understand that this isn't for everybody and therefore it is unlikely that we'll make first contact since we have no intention of troubling anyone. Instead, we're providing a pretty detailed profile about who we are and who we're seeking.

Similarly, if you're looking for some sexy chatting: that's cool ('talking dirty' is fun!), but you'll probably be disappointed because I'm going to try and get to know who you are as a person before diving too deep into anything very sexy. (We seek adventure but we also like our adventures to be sensible and respectful. - Skydiving is fun, but you better make sure that you're parachute is on before you jump... )

So, if you're interested, I'd love to hear from you. And if you're not 100% sure - go ahead and drop me a line: we'd be happy with a friendship as well (with or without 'benefits'.)

We are very open minded individuals. However, I’ve only kissed a girl to tease men; I don't know if I can be with another women or even my BF with another women. I do need to take it slow and see how comfortable I am with a third person (woman). I do know that I’ve always been interested, and I get turned on by other woman so I want to try.

If you're still interested, here is a little more:

ABOUT US:
- We're in a loving, stable and very communicative, long term relationship
- Professionals (white collar)
- We're both open minded
- Open to people of all races
- Drug and disease free (we can be tested so all parties feel comfy)
- Non-smokers
- We have wine here and there. Do not drink often.
- We believe that the best sex comes from open communications and that the most important sex organ is the brain
- We are attractive with medium builds. A little rounder in some places but nobody would ever call us fat.
- We are both tall: 6 foot.
- We are both very clean/neat people
- We are discreet and look for the same from you
- See interests listed above
- Lots more to learn

ABOUT HER:
- I have blonde, shoulder length, curly hair
- I’m a 38 C
- Interests: see those listed above
- Lots more to learn

ABOUT HIM:
- Shoulder length light brown hair
- Interests and hobbies:
Reading, rock climbing, conversation, caving, SCUBA, international and US travel, nature, backpacking, photography, skiing, science, art, politics and world affairs, white water rafting, plays and cultural events, hang gliding, writing, computers, ice climbing, and good old fashioned vegging on the couch while eating popcorn and watching a movie...
- Lots more to learn

Because I am a submissive type person, before anything else, I think we need to get to know each other. I need to ease into this – maybe hang out a few times, go to dinner, chat first. Then I see it in steps….Maybe you and I at first, then my boyfriend.