First, my name is Mike (or Michael, depending on who's saying it). Marzfan is a reference to an actor/friend. What follows is only PART of the story. It's not like you can get the real picture of someone in this little box, but a picture would help. In fact, for me to respond without a picture, you need a compelling essay. Whatever you think of me, I wish you well, and good luck in your search.
Finding my 'One True Love' on this site would be nice, but I'm a realist (does that translate as cynic? or skeptic?). I've also started browsing the forums, which is interesting and fun; like watching Jerry Springer. Part of the reason I didn't like Springer is probably because I qualify for various segments (at least, I have at one time). If you notice that I've 'viewed' you, that's why. No, silly, not because I could have been on Springer, because I browse the forums.
So, still reading? Here's some more about me. I could tell you all kind of goofy stuff about me like I'm honest, trustworthy, kind, and considerate. Yeah, I'm a boy scout wannabe...and all that is true. It's just not the whole truth. I'm a good guy, a little helpless at times, but never hopeless. I’m happy doing anything or nothing at all. Some people might think I’m a little boring, but I do have my moments. My brother and I own the house we grew up in and I get to help raise his son. At my age being Uncle Mike is probably the closest I’ll get to parenthood. Even though I don't have children, that's why I put yes in the box up there ^^. I count it a blessing, so I'm making the most of it.
Ok, so at this point you might think I'm a nice guy.
Try not to hold it against me; I'm not that nice.
While I state categorically and unequivocally that sex is not my primary agenda, ya gotta admit that sex is good. Even when it's bad, sex is good. And if it hurts? You're probably doing it wrong. Whaaat? I'm a guy. It takes very little to get me goin', but I think I've matured to the point that sex for the sake of sex is...well, let's say that I'm just not gonna put a whole lot of energy into chasing it...not for just anybody, that is. It didn't work when I was 18, 28, or 38; it ain't gonna work now.
And besides, I like to think I'm a hopeful romantic; a little helpless at times, but never hopeless. I just can't seem to find my Cinderella. Maybe it's because I'm kinda shy...Really. No, really. Ok, so it was cute when I was 15, and not so much now, but it is what it is, right? Inside I'm just like anybody else, looking for somebody to spend some time with. It could be for a minute, a day, or a lifetime....so which is it going to be for you?
I've taken the personality test, and while I don’t give it a whole lot of credence, it's seems to be fairly accurate (just my opinion). The test lists me as INFJ. Whatever that means, I'm far far far from a type A personality. I do carry ever so slightly the genetic memory for chauvinism, leavened by the influence of a loving mother who was also a corporate professional. All that means is that properly motivated I try real hard to keep up. I know that the true power belongs to women. After all, we all start out as women, and it's just a chemical imbalance that makes some of us men. Whaaaaat? It's a fact, look it up. OK, maybe imbalance isn't the right word. Maybe it's like what George Orwell said, 'All animals are equal, some are just more equal than others'.
About who I'm looking for? The world is full of beautiful, intelligent, loving, kind, and caring ladies. Each one is unique in their strengths and weaknesses. To describe one characteristic as being more valuable than the next is arbitrary and meaningless.... (Ok, so pretty, sweet, and sexy is kinda high on the list). Unless and until that person is standing before me, with the experience of becoming acquainted behind us, there is no way to accurately describe her. I'm constantly revising and editing, so come back again, and if you think we're compatible drop me a note.
It occurred to me that I might add a little about 'What YOU are lookin' for' relative to me. I've kinda gotten used to played second fiddle. I've done it quite well, I might add. I was like the Robin in Batman and Robin, or I'd have played the part of Sal Mineo in the James Dean story. Remember 'The Last Detail'? I woulda been the one in cuffs. Oh, and then there was 'Carnal Knowledge', and I'm just gettin started. So if you're lookin for that 'Alpha Male', or the 'Cream of the Crop', heck, I'm surprised you're still reading; but I might be able to point ya in the right direction.
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Is it too cliche' to say coffee? Or maybe we could get some carry-out and sit on a bench at the arboretum? Or a walk through the local swap meet? If you're east of me Victoria Gardens in Rancho is cool. I'm not above a little window shopping at the mall, but Victoria's Secret is out unless you're modeling. jk. Venice Beach is always nice for a little off-beat entertainment. We'll meet, talk, maybe do something short that could turn into a day.
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