Ok...I have been on this site for a bit and I have met some "interesting" people... My last "in my own words" was well thought out and said all of the things that I do truly think, BUT- it was obviously lacking because the people I have met (although some were nice people) have just not been what I am looking for. So, I will try and be blunt...I would like to meet someone relatively intelligent, relatively tall, and employed. Barring that, I am fairly open minded and would like to take the time to get to know -you- and see if we would have things in common/find each other attractive/enjoy each others company/ and most of all actually WANT to see each other...(not just going with the advice I have gotten and I figure some of you have too--"well at least you will have something to do in the mean time...") I want to be excited to see -you-, excited to get to know -you-, excited to go on a date with -you-. If any of this interests you, drop me a line.

Sometimes I think it may be a good idea to plan something fun (a sporting event--Go Cards, Rams, and Blues or comedy club, live music event, 4 wheeler riding...whatever) just so it takes the pressure off of sitting and trying to force a conversation while each person is uptight. I hope that by the "let's meet" stage, we will have already talked enough and discovered if we would want to spend an actual evening together! lol