My single greatest flaw is that I care too much. That being said, lets get on with my profile...
Update: I'm clean shaven and have a baby face. Pics to come...\

I'm not what you would call normal. I like it when the woman makes the first move to contact me sometimes. So I can be shy, but only temporarily. I'm a good, honest Man. And that's what makes me unique. I may not have a lot of money or looks, but to the right person, this won't be important. I make for a great friend (or more). I'm looking for someone who's not afraid to ask ME out. I would like to find someone that is also looking for a friend, but more than that. A connection. Something special that poets can't even describe. Just another lonely human in this big bad world. I want someone to hug.

And yes, I do have access to a beach (on Wonder Lake) that can be walked along in the sand. Even on a starry night. And as a first date if so desired.


Update

Hi, my name is Geoff and I think I'm what you would call a quality guy. I'll start with the basics. I'm 37, and have a stocky build. I live in the Wonder Lake area. I'm 5'6, so a little short for some. (Remember, I'm going for originality and honesty here). I really don't care much for sports. I live in a nice house by myself, with a cat and a lovable ferret named Molly. I have a car and motorcycle, but they're not very cool. I'm mature enough to know what I need and what I want are two separate things. I play a few instruments, though none very well. For fun, I like indoor activities in the winter. Think movies, fireplace, having friends over for drinks, etc. Summer time, I like camping, road trips, outdoor fireplace, boats, etc.

Oh, and I live a debt-free lifestyle. And I'm a talented hugger.

I have lived quite the varied life. I'm both a former truck driver, but also a former commercial pilot. I'm now finished with the rat race. Time to relax and live a little. Call it an early retirement if you will...

I've figured out what's important in life.
So now I work as an assistant coordinator for the local food pantry. It keeps me busy and I get to meet all kinds of um, individuals.

That about sums me up for now.

What I'm looking for is someone who is kind and understanding A woman who is feminine,yet likes to play in the mud.(So to speak). I want someone who isn't afraid to let her guard down and the end of a long day. Let me take care of you. Another day it will be my turn to be taken care of. Speak your mind when you're around me, don't hold it in. I want to know. Be honest. Communicate.

Ideally, you won't live too far away. I'd hate to have to drive 45 mins just to grab a coffee. If you have children, go easy on me. I have very little experience with them. They're not good or bad, just new. And I wouldn't risk losing a potential relationship just because of children. I'm already acting like a nervous father...


You should message me if you want to get to know a different guy. I'm totally different person. And that's a good thing. Just ask my many female friends. I somehow appeal to lesbians and married women. They tell me all their secrets and always trust me. Funny thing is, they also tend to want to be with me "if things were different" they say. I get that a lot. So here's your chance.

I've recently lost two of my little ferrets. I'll spare you the details, but now I'
m down to just one. This is very upsetting to me to say the least.

Oh yeah, I wear pajama pants in public. Call it an eccentricity. I'm comfy.

Remember to piss off a math major. Give 120%.

Write me. Gimme a chance.

How about we go out for sushi. Then we go back to my place and share a bottle of wine while sitting by the fireplace. Is that cheesy enough?\

Or a cheese plate with some tasty wine while watching a movie on my TV and relaxing on my super-duper comfy couches.

Actually, is this meant as a first meeting, or a first date?

Our first meeting will be simple. Let's share a loaf of fresh bread at Panera's. Or something to that effect. Keep it simple and make communicating easy. Remember, this is our first time meeting so let's give each other a chance to bail if necessary!

Another idea just came to me. We could go shopping together. Like at a super wal-mart. We could stroll the aisles at our leisure, and shop or just browse. It might be worth a try. There's so much to see. clothing, car batteries, dixie cups. The list goes on. I'm spontaneous like that.