how does one describe themselve...hopefully very carefully..im a little shy, try to be honest about myself..looking to be friend,partner and lover to someone..my children are my heart but there is always room to share it with someone special..im looking for someone of substance..someone that wants to be with the same person always..someone that wants the happiness,joy,sorrow and fullfillment of being in a commited relationship..someone that wants to grow with me..