Hi ladies,
What I'm looking for is really quite simple and uncomplicated, some people try to turn 1 + 1 into Einstein's theory of relativity and it really doesn't need to be that over evaluated. I'd like to meet someone that I enjoy spending time with, looking forward to seeing, and almost feels like you've known them forever. I like someone who's warm, cuddly, (without being TOO clingy and overbearing), and has a good sense of humor. I love to see a lady smile, especially if it's someone who has stolen my heart. I like the girl next door type who can look as sexy in bluejeans as in any evening gown.
Myself, I'm pretty easy going, with a good sense of humor, and am not looking for a one night stand or to be a player. I'd love to find someone for a possible LTR if the right one comes along. Sorry, not interested in BBW or older women, no offense, it's just not what I'm attracted to.
I do believe in chemistry and initial attraction, although looks without personality goes nowhere, it's an empty vessel. Looks may get you there, but personality will keep you there.
If you are SERIOUS about wanting some of the same things as myself I would love to hear from you. And what have you got to lose, if we find we aren't a match or I'm not interested, the most you're out is an email. Take a chance, I'm waiting!

I think a first date should often be a simple meeting to get to know each other and see if anything clicks. That may prevent a LONG day that they know is going nowhere. Grabbing a bite or maybe meeting for a drink to chat is usually a decent icebreaker in my opinion, and if things click you can go from there if you like. I believe in chemistry, I think a person usually knows fairly quickly how things are going and if anything's there.