i havent a clue how to describe me, maybe you could do it in are first chat? i am .. romantic,open,fun,in shape, have many interests, but.. it doesnt matter what i am doing-its the person i am with that makes me happy! i am looking for a woman that can be herself!and not try to be what she thinks i want! who is independent,honest,is happy with herself and not need a man to be happy-he should be just a plus in her life! strong, but not afraid to ask for help or afraid to give it, a woman who i trust and who is not afraid to trust me! a woman who is with me because she WANTS to be not because she NEEDS to be with someone! a woman who know that i am thinking about her even when we are not together, and who knows that i am looking forward to being with her! it is important to be friends not just lovers!she should know that i will be there for her! looks are important(may be shallow) but i stay in shape and want a wonan who takes care of herself! there needs to be a phycial attraction as well as mental!so.. if you are out there??? i would love to hear from you!!! and please no games... just not into them!!! the only ass that needs kissed is in the bedroom! i have been around, so dont try to play me or think that i am stupid or blinded by my ego!! (like most men) i am not! so if your not pissed by now? just one more thing, for the women "just wanting a nice guy"? could you explain to us what your idea of a nice guy is!!? seems to be his bank account,hight,weight,hair or eye color,facial hair or not,body hair,job,interests, distance, etc. i never thought that you could build a nice guys phycial apperance to your wants??? so for all the nice guys, could you please explan to us that when we dont have all the features you want! why the "nice guy" isnt given the chance to let you get to know him?? believe me i understand that there has to be a phycial attraction! but their job,hight,education,etc. come on!! so now, i would love to hear from a "nice woman" with big ti....and a small as... very pretty and...just kidding!!!lol