'You never see the bigger picture when you are in the picture'

Id like to call myself feminine, organised,great cook, punctual, good for a chat and a cup of tea and a slice of cake or whatever the mums pulling up in the 4 x 4s do, but i wont because i cant. Organisation does not come naturally to me but i guess i just need to train or something. I have been described as none of the above but heh who under 80 eats cake nowadays anyhow,, its cheaper to buy than to cook , less mess and less hurtful and violent when they dont eat it.


!Theres alot ive done and am interested in right now so tell you more if we talk!

I am passionate about anything i do and dont believe in doing things by half measures. This includes my work. I often start something creatively and trust myself that it will turn into something good, i never let myself down on things i set my mind to.
should get my head down....................


I enjoy learning from people, absolutely love it when i gain an insight to something new and can carry that with me. I am very open minded and love and adventure! I could not believe it when my travelling mates said after i booked my flight to Bangkok, "Meet you in a pub called Gullivers Travels on the ko san road"! I mean i was travelling alone half way across the world for them to say that, typical men! ... Actually though the more i thought about it the better the idea appeared, and i done it, but thats another story!


I believe in this site for a bit of enlightenment and meeting people that add to the positive in life. Not to say i am heartless and uninterested in problems, i am quiet the opposite and care alot, but to meet people without them is a very good start. Learn from your past and live life today.

What id like for now and to start with is to have a fun friend and to go out to play now and again. Maybe that would grow, maybe that would not. If this does not then a good time was had with no emotional trauma and we could reflect on one another with a smile and fondness. I do not want to have a check list out, Do we for everyone else we meet? Time always tells us. Lets just be,, just do,, without our microscopes waiting for everything to go wrong.

If my soul mate was ever to come my way in this life my desires would be different but i am not going to spend my time wanting, hoping and waiting because all that i have is one life to live.

IDEAL MAN FOR NOW- Sporticus, im into him, mind you , i wouldnt mind a bit of Robbie Rotten now and again, i bet he could be fun!!



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I hope everyone finds what they are looking for xx

No two people are the same so the date would depend on the person i think and what has been talked about before, dont like to put in boxes, see which way the breeze is heading. Open to suggestions, try me!