Friends tell me that I have a kind soul. I'm very nurturing, and make a great friend. I enjoy swimming and anything to do with water...I LOVE music and animals. I enjoy travel, but am a homebody. I really enjoy riding motorcycles.( I make a great passenger!) I get passionate about creative projects.I love all types of music as long as it's talent....Jesse Cook. Satrianni, Nickle Creek, Tom Petty, Eagles, Jethro Tull, Joni Mitchell, Ray LaMontagne, Acoustic Alchemy..and more.
Spontaneous,assertive,sincere,funny,deep,intelligent,sexy,strong,open,honest,wise, very sensual, and fairly well balanced.
I love to be playful and laugh, as well as have deep stimulating conversations.
I enjoy being a woman, I try to take care of myself... work out regularly, and feel confidant in most situations. Cuddling and touching are second nature to me. I enjoy creating and sharing a nice meal and spoiling someone special.I'm easy to get along with. I'm very multifaceted, and not boring. I'm open to trying new things and love learning.
I feel so much more advanced than I was 10 or 20 years ago. I'm in better shape, mentally and physically. Men would fare well not to overlook the value of a mature woman.( some of us anyway). I learn from my mistakes ( at least usually) and I'm basically happy with who I am, even though flawed.
I don't hold on to bitterness or resentment and am very forgiving and understanding.
I believe in win/win situations in every aspect of life, from love to business.


I consider my self very spiritual, but rarely go to church. I believe that people and circumstances come into your life for a reason. I have felt God deep in my heart all my life. Life is a journey of lessons. Love is the ultimate gift.

I've had my own aquarium business since 1992. I create and maintain aquatic beauty and compatibility. I have great work ethics and have had most of my clients for years It's not very lucrative, but I love it. I designed and maintained a huge fireplace aquarium for MTV's "Real world" series , filmed here in Denver a couple years ago...Very challenging, but a lot of fun.
I am a self taught type person and excel at anything I set my mind to when motivated. I am more educated by life than through schooling, although I love to read.

I've been a single mom of two boys since 1997. My 22 year old is in "Intelligence" in the Air force and doing great! My 24 years old is a gifted artist, going to college majoring in video game design... also doing great. They are both on there own now.( well...sort of)

What I'm looking for...
I love having a man in my life. It's so much more fun to share joys with someone and always nice to have (and be) someone to lean on. I am very lovable and desire the same in a man. I like a guy that makes me laugh.( I can be very funny too) Someone that sparks me up, is available, and not afraid of intimacy or to show his true self. (Neck and foot rubs will win my heart forever.) I'm very sensual and hope you are too. Mutual affection is a biggie to me.
It would be great if you were:
intelligent,honest,confident,giving,funny,romantic,warm, and somewhat emotionally stable. I respect a man that takes care of himself and takes responsibility for his health. I still love chivalry.
Physically, I'm attracted to nice eyes, a great smile, a warm voice, and long legs. Chemistry is more important than a pretty face. Eye contact says it all. I enjoy a great kiss. Sexual compatibility and good communication are vital in a romantic relationship. I'm not into casual sex. Making love is just what it says.

It's nice to share the same interests and activities, but also good to be open to new experiences. ( No sky diving or cliff climbing...please :)
It is important to share similar values, desires and dreams. Communication is a must.

I'm not sure about legal marriage anymore. Somehow, commitment got lost in time. The lawyers are usually the winners.
We should be bound by our hearts and not by expectations.
To truly love is to hold someone with an open hand.

A quiet place to talk and get to know someone and then if we are enjoying ourselves, something fun like dancing, or enjoying live entertainment. Anything is fun when you're with the right company. If my date comes up with something creative,
I'm flexible.(well... normally)
If there is no attraction or chemistry, that's where it gets a little awkward. Usually you both just know, I guess, and keep it short and friendly.

I believe that true friendship is the root of any successful relationship.