I am quite happy with who I am and what I do. While I try to be a well developed and balanced blend of smarts, looks, emotion and its combined success, I always see there is room for growth, which I’m glad to do and happy to accomplish, though it may take more than one try.

I am single, unattached, with no kids, …for sure (smile). Like you, I’ve been in some serious relationships, but am still seeking the ONE.

I get noted for looking a bit like Erick McCormack (aka Will), from Will & Grace, which I do, ...on a good day. (laugh, …let’s not talk about the bad ones, …-smile-) So, I may be described as good looking, but in a more unique way. Still, I am always surprised when I get complimented. Frankly, I’d much rather see that my better half get complimented, which I’d be happy to do so, any day, no matter what.

I'm smart enough to know I'm not that smart, but also who really is smart. Still, my friends describe me as one of the most intelligent persons they've ever met. I don't make much of it and instead wish to bring it to good use for those who would thrive on it.

Another thing, noted sooner than later, is that I have an unusual cultural and ethnic background. I was born and raised in Europe, as part of a European-Latin family that cared for family, community, culture, arts, education, health, respect, tolerance and good grooming, … and I carry on that influence to this day.

I’ve been higher educated at US universities and life educated by travels, trials and tribulations. I love to continue traveling any chance I get, near or far. I speak a few languages, English with a little accent, and am well spoken and mannered, but with a strong sense of self.

I live combining the best of these influences. I am open, generous, kind and good-hearted, love a good joke any time, but keep my feet on the ground.

I love nature and animals, but can just as easily relax in a place that I make beautiful.

I am enthusiastic and supportive and fundamentally a provider. However, while I am happy to care for those in my life I do not wish to have to do so, so please no clingy types.

If you’re additionally looking for someone who is well-adjusted, assertive, artistically sensitive and creative, caring, affectionate, sensual and sensuous but intelligent, gentle but firm, patient and relaxed, helpful but challenging, appreciative but quality conscious, loving and forgiving, aware, attentive, observant & learning, …by all means let me know.


[Simply write what's on your mind, ...anything. A friendly 'Hi' is a good start. Add your name, whatever else may be on your mind and presto, …you got it! Also, if you wish to know me better, please have a pic or more posted. I’m just a man who knows what works for me. Surely something you can appreciate. Last, please make an effort in writing clearly and not as if you don't care because I do, and if you don't care why should I? This is still time and effort so make it worth our while. TY! ]

Some kind of activity, ...walk, bike, blade, dance, ...chat over coffee/drink. I'm new to the SF area so I'm happy to learn what more one could do.