Please do not message me for sex or just to "hang out". I am looking for a LTR only.

I like to hang out with my family and nice people who are fun. I like all the typical stuff - boating, movies, reading, working out, cooking, hiking, etc.

I have three dogs and two daughters (16 and 8).

If you have children, I will love them like they are my own. Family is very important to me. However, I do not want anymore children of my own.

I like hanging out around the house and working on home improvement projects. I spend a lot of time riding my horse, so know that up front. It would be great if I found someone who loved to ride also, but if you have your own hobbies that is cool too. I love music (all kinds from rock to rap to Country - especially country right now) and being silly (even if I'm the only one laughing) when I'm not working on being serious. I only spend time with happy, positive people. I can't stand drama.

I work hard during the day so I prefer to be low key in my personal time. On a scale from 1-10 I am about a 5 in the low-high maintenance realm. I can get out of bed and ready in 30 minutes flat. I know some guys like a barbie doll type, so if that is what you're looking for - keep on looking.

I'm really up for doing whatever with the right person. Whether it be going to Carmel for a weekend or Tahoe to ski/snowboard or watching movies on the couch. I like to have fun and I love to laugh until my stomach hurts.

I would like to meet someone who has their stuff together but isn't uptight about life. You can be successful and still be down to earth, fun and easy going. I'm looking for a sexy, smart and fun man who takes good care of himself. Men who are rude or judgemental turn me off. I appreciate the differences in people, cultures, backgrounds and races and am looking for someone who is similar in that way.

I consider myself successful and I am very happy with where my life is right now. I believe that you make your own happiness and you decide your future and outcomes, so if you have goals and plans and are working toward them we will get along just fine. I have worked long and hard to build my career and prepare for my future. I want someone to share my life and future with. I am ready to find that one person who I cannot live without.

You don't have to make a lot of money or have "things" to impress me; I have everything I need to take care of myself, so I am looking for the intangible benefits that come from a quality relationship with a good man.

I am at the age and point in life where I am ready to find the one person I can grow with and trust for the rest of my life. I am fortunate that I have dated good men. I am happy, and love men, and am not jaded or damaged. I begin each new relationship as a clean slate. I will support you through the ups and downs of life and I expect the same in return.

April
xoxo

P.S.
I do not drink alcohol, so if you drink more than a little bit we will not be a good match.

For a first date I would let the guy make the plans and just tell me whether I need to dress up or if I can wear jeans. I prefer to stay more casual, so a man never has to try to impress me by taking me anywhere fancy - unless he really wants to.