9/09 If you have writen me and I haven't writen back I have been busy and took a break from this place and all my e-mails were erased so if I spark your fancy maybe give it another shot :)

I do need to update my pics now. Basically though my hair is longer blonde with black tips and that's about it.

I just don't quite know what to say anymore..ugh..I am really into to music and seem to get along good with people who have that as a common interest. I am definately one of a kind! I want a partner in crime damn it!!! I guess you could say I'm a well rounded girl with a fiesty edge! Smart, sweet, educated, sucessful, goofy, silly, respectful..I don't know..I have a style all my own and can clean up well but also not afraid to get my hands dirty..

BTW I selected "dating" as it does not let you choose more than one option if I could have it would be Dating, long term, and friends (and NO not friends with favors!!) There are a few people on here who I could see as being a friend of mine but not interested romantically. Nor am I a chronic dater..I am not making a living off of free meals..just not intersted in settling and what I mean by settling doesn't mean I am not willing to "settle down" with the right guy it just means I am not desperate to fall in love with the first person I meet!

Let's try this

Who I'd like NOT to meet..

I am probably not intersted in you if...
a) you have a picture of you next to your car..great you have a car..most people do! and if you think I care what kind of car you drive then I am probally not the person for you..ESPECIALLY if you have a picture of your car by itself..same goes for motorcycles..UNLESS it is an old classic car then that might be a different story if its done with style and not as a p@nis extension!

b) if you don't know how to wear a baseball cap straight..not into the "yeah bro" types

c) if you have a picture of you with your shirt off (see quote above) all that tells me is maybe your mommy didn't teach you how to dress and I don't really give a hoot if you have "six pack" abs all that tells me is maybe you spend waaay too much time in the gym when you should be doing something more useful like reading a book or learning to dress yourself! Unless you are showing a tattoo which there is fine line of that p@nis extension again..

And no I am not a a angry person and if you can't see past the humor and sarcasm behind this then..

Ok I have more..
I love the profiles that say "just looking" or "just on here to see whats out there"...hmm isn't that what we are all doing on here??? DUH!!

Observation # 2 People who write semi-racy stuff or have a racy/sexy picture and then put "LOL" next to it! Either be confident enough to put it up there...enough said or don't put it up at all you know you wanted everyone to see or hear that about you ex: "I am good kisser LOL" "great in bed LOL" either be bold enough to write it or shut up!!

Observation # 3
What is up with the people who have testimonials on their profile??? Doesn't it make you wonder if they are "such a great guy" or "great catch" then why the hell are they not with them??

Ok I am done ;-)..for now he he he..POF is turning into a total interesting people watching experience for me if anything..ENJOY!!!

And no I am not grouchy..unfortunatley I am probably the sweetest girl you will ever meet..just insightful and yes like I say FIESTY! RR! :-)

A first date doesn't have to be a big production like some damn KISS concert with pyrotechnics and all that..(no I don't mean literlly going to a KISS concert just using the silly overproduction as a silly example!).We can meet up for a beer or coffee or whatever then sparks should fly with good coversation not the places we go. I can go out and have fun just about anywhere I make the best of every situation