I am probably one of the most normal people you will ever meet. i've been there done that with drama, chaos, as well as routine havoc and disorder. But I am happy to say that I have learned very valuable life lessons from all of it and i have evolved into a reasonable, PEACEFUL, optimistic, happy individual. I love life and i want to live to be 100! I am very content with my life and i am very independent. The person i spend the rest of my life with will have to respect my space, but also be there for me. i wish to meet someone who has his own thing going on and doesn't have to be attached to my hip. Someone who can add to my life and not take away from it. I don't favor wishy-washyness. If you make a plan, stick with it. I like a man with a plan! Be organized and have your act together. Integrity, positivity, confidence and passion are very important to me. this man will reap many benefits, I promise!!!!

i have a gazillion interests, but i won't name them all just yet, as i am open to whatever comes my way, except bunjee jumping and sky diving. Remember, I want to live to be 100!!! I love to have fun! You CANNOT be boring. I need to have excitement and adventure in my life, i get bored easily.... and you can't be dumb. If you get my jokes, you're not dumb! If i don't get your jokes, you're dumb! You must be able to communicate. That includes talking and listening. And laughing of course! I have to laugh on a regular basis or i get deathly ill. And it ain't pretty! Oh and speaking of pretty, please don't tell me that i am. I'd rather hear what it was about my PROFILE that interested you, and don't say the backbend on the beach! I posted a variety of pics so you could view some on my many interests.

One more VERY important thing. This is an example of an e-mail that will get deleted: "I just ran across your profile and I think we have a lot in common. Please check out my profile and let me know what your thoughts are?" 50% of the e-mails i get say this. What's wrong with you people?!?! Can't you be a little more creative!? I'm an exciting girl, i would like to recieve an exciting e-mail, something that would make me want to respond. i don't want to be a ball buster, but i had to go there!

My age requirment is 41-53, give or take. I also have a height requirment, I like guys who are taller than me! I prefer to meet those without young children as my son is grown and i enjoy my free time and flexibility. But that is negotiable. Smokers are ABSOLUTELY prohibited to contact me!!! Also, please be healthy. Take care of your body and your teeth. i love to see a beautiful smile. I do like hairy chests, but that's not mandatory. Goatees are bonus! Dimples, extra points!Got all 3, you got me, at least initially!!! triple bonus: NBA fan. i need someone to watch games with. oh, and most importantly... please, please, please don't hate ANYBODY!!! especially your ex-wife. All in all, I do know what i like and what i want, but i can be flexible too. And please respect my requests, that's not alot to ask is it?!?!..

Now that you know what i want, i'll tell you what i can give you. The 3 most important things to a man.....support, loyalty and food(that includes for the body and for the soul). It's as simple as that.

And remember.. the past is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift, that's why they call it the present.....PEACE!!!

For sure ALOT of talking and laughing and flirting. It doesn't really matter where or what we are doing. Well actually, if it involves food, that would be bonus! no coffee, please.