****for the next little while I will be really busy, so I might not respond that quickly. this is still ongoing, sorry to those who I owe messages :( I typically respond to all, it's just a time factor :(

I am a writer, although not working as one.

I know my photos are quite poor, and my sincere apologies for that. I don't take to the camera too well. I've been told a lot of times that I look or seem younger than I am. This hasn't happened once or twice, but constantly, and I shouldn't even mention it, don't know why I did actually.

Being able to laugh at oneself is a valuable thing. I tend to love sarcasm and British humour. I don't take myself too seriously. I am a spirited lass, I will poke fun at a lot of things, including myself, including you- but it's not because I'm mean spirited, it's because I'm mischievous and ADORE making people laugh (and you will, around me). But having said that, I am in all actuality a warm, sweet person who hasn't yet found the boundaries of kindness. My eyes tend to give me away. I do keep a lot of my thoughts private.

I exercise my critical thinking skills through writing. I like to write essays, and am an unabashed forum addict. That is because I am an idealist, so I will always stand for what is the greater good. I am a singer, of some modest success. I love music, all the arts really. Sports are not my thing for the most part, but I can dig it when other people are into them. I have a very philosophical outlook on life. I play video games sometimes, but not as much as I used to. I like the outdoors and all that wonderful BC stuff. I like keeping up on current events. I'm a bit of a nerd, but that seems to be changing as I age (aka mature? hah).

I am on a health kick, and it's very rewarding. I am getting into shape after a few bad years where I dealt with a back injury. Because of that and my former job, I put on more pounds than I care to admit to, but it feels incredible to see myself losing it on a monthly basis. I can't wait until I reach my goal weight. I do have a long way to go, but I am content with my level of progress.

I am a problem solver by nature, and I have a very low tolerance for drama. Honesty is vastly important to me, and I consider it the highest form of courage. I am capable of great depth of understanding when confided in. I am confidante to many people, I hold secrets near to me, and try not to judge when I haven't walked a mile in the moccasins. I am the one people come to for advice, I am always fair but I support personal responsibility, accountability, and love for one's self. I really do not like irresponsible or ignorant people. I love myself quite fondly and quite possibly could cross the line from confident to slightly narcissistic. (I kid, I kid)

While I am female and prone to the rare grumpy mood (hormones, guys), I am a happy easy going optimistic person in general. I've never been called petty. I believe in doing the 'right' thing, treating people as I would wish to be treated, but I am not a doormat by any definition. :D I like all sorts of different kinds of people, from different walks of life. I can usually find some common ground with just about anybody.

While I am lighthearted and optimistic, I do have a serious side as well, that comes out once I've known someone awhile and feel comfortable around them. I am a thinker, always pondering everything in the universe. I appreciate experiences of depth and meaning. I mostly keep those thoughts to myself, but I guess I have had a lifelong desire to find someone to share them with, and hear their thoughts too. Don't worry your handsome head over this paragraph, if philosophical thoughts are not your raison d'être, I won't push them on anyone. But I am genuinely interested in what you think about.

I am notnotnot into one night stands, fwb's, or any of that other newfangled modern stuff, I am old fashioned through and through (meaning sex is reserved for the person who I am in a long term relationship with, only). That also means no cheating, there is nothing more distasteful. So, no more invites to meaningless sexual experiences please (as if those sort would even read this far, or even read at all, but I had to give it a shot).

I am also genuinely NOT here to date. I enjoy talking to people, and posting on forums, and that is as far as it goes. While it is true that my heart's desire is to find someone to share the remainder of our years together, I am firmly convinced that the internet makes for strange bedfellows, and it puts too much pressure on both parties. I prefer to meet people to date within the realm of normal life experience. I am not opposed to making real life friends from here, but that is all it would be. Sorry. I'm really uncomfortable being judged by my looks, either positively or negatively. Judge me on my mind, heart and soul all you wish. =)

I am mostly here for the forums, but more than happy to meet new people in my area. I love conversations whether they be by email, instant message, or even best- going out to get a drink or something.

Things I enjoy- I like watching movies, as long as they aren't cheesy chick flicks or bad comedies. I loved Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless mind, but I don't consider that a chick flick, chick flicks are more like anything Jennifer Aniston is in (except for Office Space). I love old horror movies, black and white especially, but I like a range of movies. I also love to collect tv shows on dvd (especially ones I grew up with). I love going on drives, going to the beach at nighttime, the park during the day, lots of things. There isn't room here to list the things I'd be up to do. I love photography expeditions.

Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be married