Attractive, open minded, passionate, romantic, loyal, loving dad....seeks sane, sweet, sensual and sexy, soulmate!

I've been here before and met a few nice people, but haven't clicked with the right one yet. Looking to eventually settle down and find something meaningful, real and lasting, but I guess you have to start with dating and see if things click. I'm not in a big rush, but, I'm looking for someone emotionally stable and not going to run away at the first sign of a disagreement. And preferably someone who doesn't still have their heart invested in someone else. No matter the relationship type, it's no fun listening to someone constantly talk about their ex., like they'll be comming back tomorrow. Also, if you are horribly damaged by past experiences and negative about men and relationships I wouldn't be a good match for you. Life is too short to dwell on the past...right?

I have many interests and would like to share some of yours, but also know that everyone needs their own space too. I am self employed and I have a sweet, 9 year old daughter who I spend about 3 days a week with. I will, however, be attentive to your needs and make you an important part of my life. There needs to be a balance. I'm not perfect, but maybe I'm perfect for you! I'm not shallow either, but there has to be some chemistry. I'm looking for someone to share the good times and bad. Could that be you? If I add you to my favorites, please liken this to a smile from across the room and if you see what you like, add me too. Then one of us will have to make the first contact.


I have recently started going to the gym again after being away from it for a few years. I'm not thin or athletic yet, but I do have potential! I plan to keep at it and I want to be healthier than I have been keeping myself and welcome someone that is in the same mindset. I am a work in progress and within the next few months, know I want to be as fit as I was 10 years ago (see tux pic.).
Wanna be my gym/golf partner?

NOTE: I'm hopefully only here temporarily and will (gladly!)delete my profile again, when I find someone compatible. I realize that we aren't used to all the attention, but I think it's only fair to the one you have decided to spend your time with, to stop fishing (for something better?). I assure you, that no one is happy to see their potential partner still searching. One woman I chatted with calls it "the kid in the candy store syndrome", which sounds funny, but it's probably true!

(Ok...so temporarily may not be the right word! LOL!)

There comes a point in your life when you realize
who matters,
who never did,
who won't anymore...
and who always will.
So, don't worry about people from your past,
there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.

(I like that quote!)

**I am looking for a non-smoker, but haven't added that to my profile choices as someone may be seriously trying to quit**

































































Well...you scrolled down this far, so you must be interested!

Why not send me a message.(and please include a picture or two. Thanks!) Also if you are not planning to meet after some conversations, please keep moving...not looking for a chat buddy.

Take care and good luck!