Wow--I just "looovvveee" this part!?? EX-teacher, caterer and always a musician. Lived in Fl. for l2 long years and am so glad to be home!! It is a little hard to be the new kid on the block. especially being over the big 40. Computers are not my thing soooo I'm a little slow at this. I'm very active with varied interests from art and music, to festivals (I play at) to fishing and camping. Like car shows and showing my p.t.cruiser. Don't drink much or smoke(allergies),but can be sociable or quiet as the situation demands. I'm out going and a bit of a talker, but know when to listen too. I'm surprised that I'm still a bit of a romantic. I've always been a caring person. Would rather talk in person than on this darn computer!!!!Looking for a gentleman with an out-going personality, someone who can talk as well as listen. An active individual, a musician would be nice but necessary. Someone who has a brain that works without a battery, a computer and without TV 24/7. Please be sure that even though you "want" a relationship, you have time to dedicate to making one happen. Wanting a lady in your live does go beyond a once-a-day computer e-mail or a once-a-month date. Relationships do take some face-to-face time (and no, I do not mean it has to be 24/7). I realize everyone has a job and a life before they met. If you want the benefits of a relationship you have to take the time to know one another. It all does not happen in 2 weeks! I don't need someone to support me. I learned to do that a long time ago. It would be nice to share time with someone in an activity we both enjoy. Knowing that there is someone out there that REALLY cares how your day went--good or bad. Someone that likes you even if you are having a "bad day" or even a very "good day". Someone who knows how to laugh, even if it is at ones self. I sure do that---a lot!!

Watch a sunset, have dinner or a picnic(depending on weather). Take a walk by the Bay and feed the ducks. Then go up to the top of the Park Place and have a drink or coffee and enjoy the view. Sit done by the boats and bring your own coffee, whatever. The point is to get to know one another a bit better and decide if you want to continue on and date.