It is strange how we search for love under every rock and most times it is sitting on the edge of the rive on that big bolder worn by time and watching us wade in the river.

I am many things, first and formost a father, yes I have children, no I won't hide it and I am damn proud of it. Maybe things didn't go as I planned, I certainly didn't plan it this way, and last time I thought I had it right. My children are a huge part of my life and I don't consider them baggage. There are 3 for those who are wondering.

I am also an optimist and a dreamer, I watch movies and see many things I want from a women. I see the hollywood dream, she gets butterflie at the mear sight of me, she can't stop talking about me to her friends, she calls just to hear my voice. She sees other men and thinks how lucky she is to have me. (Yes I know this sounds conceded but i really am worth having around.) I want trust, love, respect, honesty and most of all I want a good friend.

I believe in happy endings,I am no super romantic but I do try. I believe in love at first sight and I believe in the power of love and all that it entails.

I love hard and I am tired of my heart being broken. I am not in this to play games or score, sex might be a huge part of the human condition but I never love physically, I alwasy love with every fiber of my being. I have known true love and felt the type of love that can pierce your soul and I am not afraid to try and find that yet again.

I am a little picky when it comes to women so please don't take it personally if i don't reply. I am 34 and I have every right to find my dream women. If you think you are it please feel free to message me after all what a waste to read my novel only to leave without a word. Even a simple word can change your fate.

Something Simple, a coffee, a walk, a sit down conversation just to get to know you. If i have to buy you lunch to get to your heart then your heart is too expensive. I don't believe the heart should have a price.