I am a good hearted person. I am searching for a man that not only is my lover but also my friend. Someone who is honest at all times no matter what the situation is.I do not have a problem with communication and I feel my partner should have the same qualities.I do not want someone who just came out of a relationship that has excess baggage and still carrying emotional feelings.I enjoy public display if I am with the right person & it is done in a tasteful manner. Family is also important to me.Okay I really dont know where all the good guys are at but I dont believe they are really are on plentyoffish. lol. The same ole guys have been on here for years. So many people ask me why I dont come on here very much and to be honest there is no reason except to get my messages and as soon as possible before someone comes on to IM me. Either you recieve 1 e-mail and there is a phone number attatched the first time talking or alot of men think the only thing to do in life is to snuggle on a couch. Wake up it is 2009.

My first date would depend on the person and what we have in common and what we decide on. I enjoy going out to eat, listening to a band or just meeting to see if we have chemistry. Update......Please make sure you look like your picture or dont even think of contacting me! Sorry.