I am a 48 yr old father of two kids, both U of MN graduates...( well Marli in one more yr..) and I want to reestablish my life and love in it. I want to be more OPEN, and IN CONTROL and want DATES...not just pipe dreams or mysteries or users. I want to become an even better known and accomplished mobile Dj as long as I can keep doing it. I also want to attain new ventures IF...they match up time-wise. Life is all about HOW one overcomes his losses. I am going to be the Joe that I have always been....just improved, is all. OH..and ladies NOW my hair is much longer, so just need to get a new updated picture...and have NOT grown back a goatie and mustache...

I believe in spontenaiety and being open and I like to please the lady so with that in mind: I would NOT WANT HER uncomfortable sooo I would call her and give my ideas to make sure she was ok with them. A first date would be first and foremost a CASUAL meeting at a restaurant with a bar so that IF she wanted a drink before the meal then I would allowed for the time and place..THEN I would love to take her to a movie or somewhere of her choice IF the movie was not so exciting. If she felt like dancing, that would be fine with me, as usually, BEING THE DJ I really dont have the TIME TO DANCE. Then I would see what she wanted to do afterwards and if nothing , well of course take her to her doorstep. I want her to be comfortable with me and likewise and IF ..IF no chemistry...WELL AT LEAST two people have found new friends that are respectful to one another!

Female
Age between 35 and 65
Live in United States
Must not do drugs
Must not be married