Sorry but I have changed my mind about this… I think right now I am going to hold off on pursuing any dating (no baggage or being jaded just feel like not doing any dating right now) so ladies I guess if you want to chat that will be OK so I guess just drop me a line I’ll try to log on about once a week (with my kids I get pretty busy), I’ll keep my profile active who knows I may feel like it in a few months, I think I’ll just focus on my kids right now, besides I know when It’s the right time God will send me the right woman for me even if I am not looking. Take care & God Bless.

One quick thing if you have tried to IM me w/ this sites messenger it locks up the PC's I use I guess it's because I live way out in the country & use dial up so I apologize for any problems or no replies to attempts to IM.
I am looking for a good hearted, fun, affectionate woman, someone that's caring, loving & isn't afraid to show affection / PDA, holding hands, my arm around you, etc. to me race is not important what is important is that we are compatible someone that likes the same things I do, outdoors, swimming etc. I am comfortable out on the town, outdoors or at home snuggling on the couch or swimming. I am pretty easy going so I am usually up for most anything, however, I am not much of a dancer not anything more than slow dancing, I am caring & affectionate... (Could keep going but I'll make myself sound like a cute puppy ;o) ), love to snuggle up to a movie, fireplace, campfire, etc. I have 2 beautiful kids a boy 4 years old & a girl 7 years old I have primary custody,
WE ARE A PACKAGE DEAL So I come w/ kids
SOOO...... if that is a problem (apparently it is for a lot of women my age they find out I have young kids then drop off the face of the earth) then I am not the one for you. My body type is between a few extra pounds & big & tall so I chose the few extra pounds the pics of me was taken from 2/28/08 to now (not very photogenic, or so I am told by most everyone that knows me), I don't always have the beard sometimes a goatee or clean shaven in the summer, never a mustache, about the occasional smoking I will from time to time have a good cigar good quality import & I smoke outside it has been since November of 2007 since I have had one usually I have 1 a week usually in the summer when I am cleaning the pool so with summer here I am sure (honestly speaking) I will probably start back up when I am doing the pool maintenance. If you have any questions just drop me a line.

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Most anything, good 1st date would be to meet at Starbucks & get a couple coffees & talk or dinner some place we can talk & get to know each other. I am pretty easy going so really whatever you want to do is fine w/me.