Some people here are looking for the "love of their life" in the hopes of also finding someone who is handsome and perfect. They have their minds set on the fact that no matter how educated or how socially intelligent he is, as long as he is good looking, they're fine with that. I'm not uber-gorgeous or anything like it but I'm no hypocrite either. I think all people are attracted to a person's appearance first and foremost. Or at least they have to be presentable and in good health or clean.

I think communicating skills are a hard-to-find feature in prospects. Just the fact that somebody posts a profile on this site and wouldn't even answer a first communicating attempt, is an immediate sign that that person doesn't live up to his own expectations. This brought me to my FDR theory: "FISH DON'T REPLY" , at least not in POF. So why bother ??? I guess they just want the attention but since Mr. Perfect is not out and about, we wander if they will ever find anything.

I wont say I am the perfect communicator but I believe in maintaining contact even by artificial means like SMS Texting, Twitter, E-mails, Skype, IM, video cams, voice phone, sign language, smoke signals, etc. A simple interactive gesture that goes a long way. I know some of you are overwhelmed with gadgets but still is better than the convenient disapearence from the face of the earth. There's always the down side of anything. You can't have everything you want the way you want it but be thankful for what you have or some of us can get.

Plus, since its a fact of life that women seem to communicate better...or different than men, it would be interesting to find a leveled ground were this skills can conjugate and develop a strong practical relationship. Its just a matter of trying.

UPDATE: I do a lot of my work on the Internet so must expect me spending lots of time editing content or updating blogs. I had to leave the relationship open so I can have flexibility and work on prospects expectations.

Maybe testing the levels of interactivity over a good verbal conversation at a public place (I believe in the power of wine to soften the minds, the perfect chemistry at work; but also ice cream and language testing would be interesting since I spoke four).