I am a 58 young thinking, independent woman who is looking for a man who is kind, can communicate well and is self confident without being vain. I need someone who will respect and share his ideas with me. I am interested in a man who may be artistic or have an appreciation of art in different forms. Also, someone is non-judgemental and cares about all different people, no matter where they come from and who will not make assumptions about people based on certain things like race or religion.

a first date could be conversation over coffee, a movie, a walk around Sheepshead bay. A first date should be a mutual decision between the two people on what would be most fulfilling for the two of them. Good conversation could be over coffee, in a nice resataurant or at a museum. It's so important to establish the first connection.