WOW! I changed the format here and responses went to zero. Just a note here guys. Do not ask for honesty if you don't truly want it. I am simply a REAL lady; who can go from being dirty out in the garden to resplendent for a benefit in just one hour. So I will get to the matter here:

I am currently in the process of re-invention. Not only of myself but moreover my mind-set.
ABOUT ME: First the facts...
I am 5'2" tall Dark brown hair and honey brown eyes. 38 32 38.

I was married for 17 years (divorced him) and have two awesome young-adults. I have spent these years as a stay at home mom; so focused on parenting and duty to home and hearth that I forgot what it was like to socialize with other adults outside my work/home sphere.
So here I am out in the big ole' world again taking a stab at this thing we all need...interpersonal relationships!!
If I had to describe myself it would have to be like this: Slow to warm personality who likes to get things DONE. I'm a big supporter of common sense,laughter, cloud gazing, creativity, compassion, the arts, acting childish, (when warranted), I love New age minded ideals where meditation and energy work are concerned. I believe in God (male or Female), and hold deeply to my faith & my Native American roots.
I am not into Race issues (or nascar) as I am a member of the Human race...so all males apply.

I am a pet person!!
I want to learn to sail, and am hoping to travel with my kids abroad soon.
I love ALL KINDS of music from many eras but somehow newer Country has a tendency to grate on my nerves.

I have a bad habit of saying what is on my mind; however decorum and tact are not forgotten.

I was told throughout my life that I should always ask for what I wanted and that Creator would provide. So here it is :

I want a man who thinks talking is a good thing. (especially those quiet moments alone when the world has yet to inundate).
A man who is financially secure and capable of financial responsibility.(Not a gold digger here; simply a woman who appreciates security).
A man who believes that we should cherish one another and believes in BALANCE in all things.
A sense of humor is a MUST around my silly bunch.

Now for the list of more musts:
Must love the water and Nature
Must love to read
Must love old movies
Must love to travel
Must love and respect all animals (I just had my heart broken by the loss of our puppy Sparkee; so I'm off pups for a while),
Must love to read and have an open mind in all prose... (yes I said it twice..it's that important lol).
MUST HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR
and last but not least...
Must have a love for life and romanticism; the ability to hold his own in an intellectual conversation; and NO FEAR of words with more than three syllables.

Now for the I'm better off without list:
I would be better off without:
A man who is co-dependent (be your own person & so will I that makes the connection a TRUE one).
Larry the Cable Guy kind of life values.
Misogynistic Values (he-man woman haters club members need not apply).
Alcoholics
Bad Hygiene
Closet Homosexuals (but if your out I can help you find a man)!(guess why I divorced him yet)??
Gratuitous Drug usage (Herbal is fine... all other is NOT TOLERATED)!! {AGAIN nature vs chemical...no brainer).


Well if that all has not swayed your thinking I'd love to hear from you.
I promise to have new pictures up soon.

My first date. . . depends on the weather these days!!
I would like to go get a coffee; maybe check out a gallery or something. . . then maybe even a nice draft Yeungeling and some conversation with our toes in the sand.
See if we enjoy our time and then take each thought and word as they come.
Even if there is no spark for more later on; one is truly blessed to have friends.