Ok, so here I am updating this thing because apparently my status as "here for friends" isn't 100% accurate. So I've changed why I'm here and now I should break it down. If you can't have a friendship, you can't have a relationship....if you can't have a relationship, you can't have a marriage. And yes, I said the "M" word! lol. Ultimately, that's what I'm shooting for...just not overnight. (unless you're REALLY great!) lol...kidding!

Alright, so now I'm supposed to be more descriptive about myself. Before, I've always just gave a brief output on my qualities both good and bad.....but the problem with that was that between the two types...I have far too many to list out. Besides, unless you spend time around me in person, there's nothing I can tell you online that will justify my personality or the type of man I am. Soooooo, I'll just say this....

If you're here to play games, multi-date or find it unlikely to be the type of person that can remain faithful and honest and hold a conversation like an adult......you might as well stop reading this right now and contact the next average joe. Because the very second you assume that I'm like any other guy you've ever known... I will disappoint you! Now that doesn't take away from my human characteristics that we all share...but I do have morals. For instance, I love sex just like every other guy and just like you! If not more! BUT...I'm not gonna carry a belt to make notches in and I'm not going to give myself to any woman who's willing!

I do have several goals that I am in fast pursuit of...and once those are met, I'm sure I'll have new ones!! I'm not hard on myself, but I do have high expectations of myself and I don't quit anything easily at all. But I also don't waiste my time ;)
And this goes with ALL aspects of my life!

But like I said....this site is not gonna break the ice with me and you're not really getting to know me by emailing back and forth forever. I like MEETING people so even if it's nothing more than friends...at least we gain something from this site. I have my space too as I'm sure everyone else on here does. In fact, I think they issue a my space along with birth certificates nowadays..lol. So that's always an option. So anywho, if you're up for something that might be different than what you're used to....hit me up and lets see what happens!?!

I don't date in the manner that it is historically known for. We're not going to get ANYTHING accomplished more in a 5-star resteraunt or a movie than we would by hanging out on the beach, playing putt-putt, Disney World, or something else that's actually FUN to do!! :)

If you REALLY want to impress me....be yourself and not affraid to cut loose a little bit! I understand that nice things and a large bank account are great, but your money doesn't do anything for me and it DEFINATELY doesn't impress or intimidate me! I'm as real as they come, except with morals and respect. So hopefully this site will help introduce me to someone I can be with, cause the clubs and similar places are NOT the place to find someone of worth.