I am open to meeting someone who is honest, caring and fun loving. Someone who is not married, not into head games, and truly is interested in a long term relationship. I work hard...probably too hard, because I really don't have a reason not to right now, but I am ready, willing and able to make room in my life for fun!

I am not looking for someone to take care of me, I know that I can do that for myself. (I would, however, like someone to care about me). I don't need someone to financially support me, I can do that for myself. I would like someone, however, who has the ability and the desire to be able to travel to great places and enjoy dinner out, theatre, weekend drives...I would like someone who can share my interests and is willing to share his with me...I am willing to learn about your interests and to enthusiastically support you in what you do, who you are and what you enjoy.

I love to travel...especially to Italy, but also enjoy just relaxing on a beach with a book. Have been many places...the most exotic...Belize...to the most cliche...Vegas...and loved all of it. I enjoy theatre, movies, baseball, football, roller coasters, driving fast, big hugs, great kisses, reading, gardening, canoeing, laughing out loud, museums...being outside on a sunny day...and staying in and watching a movie and cooking BIG! I really enjoy having friends over for dinner...love to share their company and a great bottle of wine.

I'm really pretty simple...if you are honest and caring, you will get the same in return. I'm hoping there is someone out there who feels the same way - although I am truly having my doubts about this..and I am a person who is always optimistic.

P.S. I have one favor to ask of those who might email/phone/meet me - be real and be truthful. Don't tell me how great I am and that you can't believe I'm not married and then never call back; don't tell me you're going home to take your profile off this website because this was the best date you ever had and never call back; don't ask me to go out with you and never show up; BE HONEST, BE REAL...BE A GROWN UP. I really don't want to sound over the top - but every one of those things have happened, and I am truly confused by all of it because it just is not necessary. To be fair, I've also met extremely nice, polite, handsome men...who have been honest enough to say it was wonderful to meet me but that there just wasn't that "click" for them - and in every case, it was true for me too. We were able to hug at the end of the night, wish each other good luck and still occasionally exchange an email or an im without feeling bad - and that is a wonderful thing.

I guess the short version of all of this is, there isn't a reason in the world to be rude or lie to someone you just met...all we have invested is some emails and an afternoon/evening out to share a drink or a coffee...

PPS All joking aside, if you hate all lawyers and have to inform me of that within the first 5 minutes of talking to me...why are you contacting a lawyer?

Male
Age between 38 and 55
Live in United States
Live within 75 miles.
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married