Hi, and thankyou for fishing a bit deeper!

I would just like to say first, I have written the following in chunks of topics so that I don't bore those of you that can't be *__* to read alot, but those that really like to get the picture are equally satisfied! And contrary to what was once suggested in someone's profile - This is NOT my being self indulgent! It's just telling it as it is! So basically by the first sentence of each paragraph you can choose whether to continue. Ok on to the real stuff now.....

With regard to my pics I have put a variety of "states" on so as not to ever be accused of not looking like my pic! For instance the one in orange T-shirt shows me with hair 'unmade' - you know the relaxing day/fresh out of the shower type thing!! The one with cream jumper is moi extremely tired after a long day out and having just eaten and with couple of wines for dinner. The one with black necklace is a dinner dance when I was 'appropriately' anebriated!!!! Ok onto more proper stuff........

I am quite a lively outgoing person, happy & with a cheerful disposition. Generally people find me fun! I am quite broadmined & don't take myself tooooo seriously (see my 'blue hat' pics!!). However I do have my shy and reserved moments! I am open, honest & generally tell it like it is, but am not insensitive or a whinger! I love to get out and about and love to just 'do' life and see and experience things on all levels. My ideal mate would be happy to let me be me; gregarious, lively, smiley, sometimes dizzy! Other times though, I may be serious, quiet and thoughtful.

If you don't like unpredictable then I'm probably not your girl!! I don't ‘do’ routine, I cannot just sit and veg unless a 'good' film is on. On the whole I like to 'do' life, share and talk about ideas, life, experiences, plans etc. I tend to be a crammer but other times can totally waste a day doing something of nothing; you know like dead-heading my flowers and training the clematis where I want it to go!

On the whole my attitude to life (thanks to me Pa) is "get in there" & enjoy! Experience life! Make things happen! Anything vaguely adventurous would grab my interest! I am basically an “outdoorsy” type & not one for hovvering & sitting on the fence so to speak! Unless we are talking heights & then there is NO WAY you would get me off that fence! On the whole though I have a natural 'lust for life' and just want to experience as much of it that is thrown in my path!

I have had, and tried, many hobbies & interests, such as Music, Dance, Theatre, piano, singing, Food and wine, Tango, Jive, golf, cycling, running, the gym, horse-riding, fencing, sailing, snorkelling, diving......, to name but a few, and I intend doing some if not all of them again!

I love music & have the proverbial eclectic taste. I love The Feeling to Frank Sinatra, Kiri to Kylie, Simply Red to Scissor Scissors, Anastasia, Gwen Stefani, Sting, Craig David, Seal, Beverly Knight, John Legend, Chillout Music, Lounge Music, Celtic, Blues, Jazz, Swing, Opera, Musicals, Classical, etc! I can also be an Arty ****y type and particulary lurve the work of Drew Darcy, Mark Spain, & Fabian Perez and love meandering through Museums.

I would say I like to dress fairly up-to-date, trendy & regard myself as well kept & well groomed. I would like this to be the norm' with my ultimate partner too. I love a man to look good, keep the ol' facial hair in order (with sundays off of course!!), smell divine and dress to suit his style and physique. Conversely of course I am not averse to ruff n scruff when necessary. I mean, no good wearing my glitzy heels on a sailing trip or my chiffon dress on a motorbike! (be nice to try both though!)

As a person I like to be attentive and would appreciate the same from a partner, whilst at the same time not smothering each other of course!! I like to hold hands on a walk or wandering through town that sort of thing! The main things I need from a guy are loyalty, understanding, acceptance, and to be non-possessive. Not much to ask really is it?!! And, I don't mind a bit of baggage as long as you unpack it once to air it then bin it - and I don't mean the re-cycle bin!

I suppose you could say I try to be "real", all round normal, whilst trying to remain very different from, shall we say my competitors!!! I am gregarious, pragmatic, tenacious, well adjusted and No bunny boiler! There ya go guys, just what you 'Reeeeaally' wanted to know!

Well I would be fairly happy with most things, but I suppose the usual bevvy first and if we clicked, the potential for a lunch or dinner to continue the 'clicking' would be great!

Alternatively walking along a beach or a game of ten pin bowling would not be out of the question!

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