Outgoing. Smiley. Smart. Cuddly but not clingy. Classy but silly. Confident but not****. Sane but fun. I like to work out, but I'm not obsessed with it. I guess I'm a bunch of contradictions. If we hit it off, it will be fun trying to figure it all out. Sassy. I like the word sassy. It's just fun to say. I enjoy the Hollywood Bowl, wave runners and the horse races, but I'm lucky if I enjoy each of those once a year. I used to play a decent game of tennis. I'm close with my family. I am a straight-shooter and a very good friend. A UCLA graduate. I love happy hour with my girlfriends, and Sunday brunch with my family, and I'm a chocoholic! I like positive attitudes (although you don't need to put on a false happy face). I love to travel (who doesn't?) I've been to most of the US, Western Europe, Israel, Bosnia and more. I definitely need to plan another big trip soon. My last one was Australia for three weeks - scuba diving at the Great Barrier Reef was an experience of a lifetime. But it would have been even better to have shared it with someone special. When in a relationship, I love spending time planning adventures, lying around doing nothing, and everything inbetween, but I think it's important to maintain our own friendships and some independent activities, too. I have traveled a LOT for work, which is probably a big reason why I'm single. (That, and the fact that in the theatre business - I direct and choreograph - most of the men I meet are great, but gay!) I still travel, but I would definitely change that for the right relationship. I hate to have to say this, but no pictures, no response. I am not looking to see if you're "hot." I couldn't care less about that. But you do get a general sense of a person from a picture - tattoos or clean cut, etc. So, that's the deal. I'll admit that I'm not a big IM fan for first introductions. Yes, I look just like my pictures. And please don't let my entertainment-related career turn you off. It's a business, and I treat it as such. Oh, I gotta be honest and let you know that I am not looking to date someone who already has children, regardless of their ages. In general, I date men close to my age - leaning towards slightly younger. Thanks.

I think of a first meeting from an online dating site as a "pre-date"! Coffee or a drink. Anything casual where we can talk. I enjoy a candlelight dinner as much as the next woman, but let's save that for when it can be more special. I have learned that a first date does not have to be "perfect" to lead to a second date. As for my date, I like a casually confident guy. Someone who is inquisitive and outgoing. A good listener, who also has interests and passions to share. . This sounds way too serious. Just be yourself, and we'll see where it goes. How's that?